Selective mutism is basically social anxiety. After you get past the first few stages of meeting someone, in any relationship, they open up to you fully. Same with someone with selective mutism. So being in a relationship with someone like that isn't hard after you get past their shell! They will only be like that with others, therefore, nothing from there should affect you being in a relationship with them.
i have selective mutism myself and there is really no cause for it other then you have it in your genetics
Selective mutism is when someone talks in some situations, such as at home or with their best friends, but can't talk in others, like at school, due to anxiety. You can get more information on wikipedia's selective mutism article and at selective mutism.com. Hope this helps!
The most reliable place to learn about selective mutism is from a local doctor or medical specialist, due to the range of possibilities associated with that disorder.
Someone who suffers from selective Mutism, like Rajesh Kutrapalli in the Big Bang Theory
He has selective mutism.
Selective Mutism. An anxiety disorder in which a person who is normally capable of speech is unable to speak in given situations, or to specific people. Selective mutism usually coexists with shyness or social anxiety. Hope this helps, there's articles online which go into more depth. :3
I don't like to hear about people making fun of someone that is selectively mute. The main problem is that there just is enough awareness about selective mutism and the anxiety that causes it! It is unfortunate, but there will always be people that feel it necessary to make fun of others especially when they don't understand something. The best advice I can give is to concentrate on coping with your anxiety to help you overcome your selective mutism. You can't change the people with the small minds. My advice is to see a Psychologist that is experienced in the filed of selective mutism. If you are in School, perhaps the Psychologist can meet with a Parent and School staff to develop a strategy to help you. Last but not least, consider medication to reduce the anxiety that you feel. You may not be able to change the people around you, but you can certainly work on beating the anxiety which is at the root of your selective mutism.
Alternative NamesResources - selective mutismInformationThe following organization is a good resource for information on selective mutism:Selective Mutism and Childhood Anxiety Disorders - www.selectivemutism.org
I have aspergers and find myself a chatterbox to a friend and rather silent to my mother. IDK :p She gets annoyed though but what can i say? People with aspergers may or may not experience selected mutism.
stop talking.You can become mute it is called Selective mutism. It is an anxiety disorder or a person is most likely to be mute due to an traumatic event. This is most likely to happen at a young age. Selective mutism usually co-exists with shyness or (often severe) social anxiety. You can talk but not around specific people and sometimes you can't talk to anyone. Despite the change of name from "elective" to "selective", a common misconception remains that a selectively mute child is defiant or stubborn. In fact, children with SM have a lower rate of oppositional behaviour than their peers in a school setting. Another common belief is that selectively mute children have experienced abuse or trauma, but most professionals who have treated many children with selective mutism currently believe this is not true.
To learn and be empathetic of their disorder is a start. If they want you to be around you will know but don't push it, be gradual and treat them the way you would want to be treated. If you develop your relationship with this individual you will find your own way to be together and get along - it will fall into place. As a mom with 3 out of 4 of my children having Selective Mutism and as someone who also has Social Anxiety Disorder I would ad that having expectations of anybody with a special need is important too. It can be challenging to balance, but without expectations people will not grow. I don't say to myself, oh my son has Selective Mutism, I don't want him to ask for his own meal at a restaurant he might be uncomfortable. Instead I warn him before we go that he will need to order for himself and I remind him to give eye contact and to talk loud enough for the waitress to hear. I help be sensitive to his anxiety, but I still encourage and expect him to function. Empathy alone will not help anybody.
The prognosis for mutism is good. Sometimes it disappears suddenly on its own.