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Where can I have the surgery to become shemale in Virginia
A shemale is a guy who presents partially as a woman for adult entertainment reasons. Some get a bit of surgery to help them with the image they are trying to portray. However, they'd likely not receive sex-reassignment surgery since that would run contrary to their role, unless they are presenting as this type of person with the final goal of surgery and assimilation. You can find many guys who become a shemale on a number of websites.
Becoming a female involves hormones and surgery.
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You don't.
No, they are normal males who choose to present as females for pornographic modeling. They may or may not take hormones. If they get any surgeries, it is only to the face and breasts, and not the genitals. "Shemales" are not the same as transsexual women who take hormones, get augmentation surgery and SRS/GRS to become more like the person they've always been inside. The term "shemale" is an invention of the adult film community and the term is offensive when used outside a pornographic context.
Become a midwife.
If you are born male, and wish to become female (in any case you should think sexchanges for a very long time), you're in for a long process, surgery not being the first step. To answer your question: you can't. But then again, you can't become fully female with surgery either (can only look like a female). But you can be more feminine. Before surgery, patients get hormones that alter your body as well. Female hormones will make your testicles and penis shrink a bit, your hair distribution and face characteristics will change, as will the location your body stores fat. All these things (and more) happen without surgery. In any case, you should think about such steps for a very long time, and definatly do them under medical and professional supervision.
A transgender boy is a boy as soon as he says he is. Gender reassignment surgery and hormones are just so he can pass easier and feel less gender dysphoria.
They are born boys and later in life they become trans women. They are not a gender of their own. Wiki:Shemale is a term used in sex work to describe trans women with male genitalia and augmented female breasts from breast augmentation and/or use of hormones. Using the term she-male for a transsexual woman would be considered highly offensive, for it implies that she is working in the sex trade.
If she grows a penis, yes.
A shemale is a man who has not had the final surgery yet to be a woman so yes of course. The term shemale is usually used as term for a transgender man with breasts that has been surgically or hormonally enhanced and working in the sex trade though so be careful when using that expression. He has not had the final operation to become a woman and some don't want to fully become women. They are not a specie of their own.