How do you break up with a girl without hurting her feelings at all?

Answer 1

Be honest. Instead of making up a reason for breaking up, state the real reason. Even if it's because you want to. There's usually no way to not hurt someone's feelings a little, but if you just be real with them, they'll except it.

Answer 2

There is only one way you can achieve this and it would depend on how she feels about you to begin with. If she doesn't really feel a spark in the relationship, or have much affection for you either because of losing it or never really having it to begin with, then breaking it off might not affect her at all and she may actually feel better knowing she hasn't hurt your feelings either.

However, if she feels any kind of connection to you, then there is no way to get around it, Even if she says she's not hurt, she may very well be hiding it from you because she's embarrassed she felt so deeply for a guy who didn't feel the same way.

So you'll just have to accept what comes with break ups just as she'll have to accept that you don't want to be with her anymore.

Answer 3

i have this same problem. I think you should go up to them and say " im sorry but this relationship isn't working out. Its not you its me. im sorry." and walk away. Dont look back or it'll get more worse to handle. Also don't think about it all the time. Try doing stuff you enjoy and forget about them. Spend time with friends,play sports or play games on the computer. What ever you enjoy.

hope this helps u all >3 from, omgitsrosa

Answer 4

hurt is always present in break ups,but there are thousand ways to break up,but not surely to diminish hurt feelings but at least lessen it and make him/her understand why.Let me share one of my experience just this dec.25,2011 at 12:29pm,it was actually my 18th birthday when my bf broke up with me,honestly its hard for me even though were just "on" for more than a month because,i really fell in love with him,but i tried to understand his situation, as a muslim,our parents are the one who look for our partners.Anyway,he told me that,since he was a child,he never became happy with his family,and he is always the one who catches their problems that is why he can no more longer can handle a relationship,even he did not directly told me the reason why he broke up with me,through his words i guessed that he maybe forced to marry someone to save their wealth,well i dont know what to do at first but i until finally,i recovered and now we are friends.

i hope i given you an answer,but please do not break up with someone if you dont really have a very good reason.

Answer 5

• There is no easy way to break up with a person without hurting them. However, you could say that you do not want to commit to a serious relationship at this time and it is nothing they did that made you make this decision. If it is true tell them there is no other person in your life at the present time, but you just need head space.

Answer 6

You can drift apart and the other person will think yall are not meant to be together,