Well being lies you should be able to convince yourself they're not true and a good support group, friends, counselor, or minister should be helpful in affirming you of the truth
go to counciling
taking on more responsibility
Yes and no it all depends on the person
yes, if they want to change then they will have to work as hard as they can. Change is hard but still good if you are changing to the good side.
Abusers are bad. Period. It is common for someone who has been abused to feel lonely when the abuser becomes absent, but it is because of the stress of change. If you feel yourself running back to your abuser, get help. The situation will only escalate otherwise.
not change but restore from the lies that has bin told
No he is not a child abuser.
Yes I do.
Lies themselves do not change facts, it is the momentum generated by lies that can change facts. This is known as the placebo effect. If I give you a pill and tell you it will cure your headache (unbeknownst to you it does not have such medicinal properties) and you accept this. Your headache may be mitigated as a result of you believing the lie.
It exist because the person being hurt stays in the relationship thinking the abuser will stop. Face reality this person has issues and they will not just up and change. I would advise anyone who is in an abusive relationship whether physical,emotional or verbal get out while you still can, because the abuser is not going to change magically.
Love Your Abuser was created on 2007-01-30.
Meaning that is how something lies and nothing can change it.