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How do you choose between a 19 years relations and a five years relation but you love them both?
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∙ 16y ago
You need to have a place to be able to reflect on this matter alone. Take the time to open your heart and look honestly at what your situation is right now. You've been with one 19 years,does that not justify that you do love this person. If you didn't you'd been gone long ago.Do you have fond memories with this person. Of course there is always going to be up and downs in any relationship it's never going to be a bed of roses 24/7. Can you truly count on this person to be there for you and have they been there for you when you need them. Sometimes we think we have fallen out of love with a long term partner because it has become so comfortable with them,and,we tend to begin to take each other for granted. When this problem finally arrives we sometimes begin to think that they don't love us or we we don't love them any longer. This is when a couple begin to drift away from each other. We may not go anywhere together as a couple much as we use to or one or both of us may have stopped caring what we look like. Talking with each other may not be like it should be. But all in all look back,there are many good memories there. Do everything you can possibly do to try and make the older relationship work. Have you done this? If so does the person who you've been in the longer relationship know how you feel? If not at least have the guts to sit down with this person and have a heart to heart talk. It's not fair to them if you don't. Your not in the relationship alone you know. Maybe they are just as unhappy as you are. As for the other five year relationship why has it taken so long for a decsion to be made if you also love this person? Is there a doubt there along the line that has casued you to stay with the longterm partner for five extra years instead of being with this other person? You know you can't have your cake and eat it too,most people don't like to share,and in the long run it will cause nothing but heartache and stress on both relationships for you as well as the both of them. Please think this over very carefully.
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