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If you are a rather cheerful girl/boy who never likes to hold grudges no matter what, then you might consider talking and laughing with them again like nothing ever happened. If you are the kind who likes to hold grudges, or likes to hold them only for a good reason, you might want to think it over by yourself for a while before you decide what to do. They might have insulted you for a reason, right? It may be because they don't want to hang out with you anymore, don't want you in their life, or it may be because they were in a really bad mood at that time. If it is the second suggestion that you know for sure that is the answer, then you might want to try talking to them gently about it. Over some time, it will ease off between you two, and maybe some of her/his other friends, too. If it is the first opinion, then you might want to leave him/her alone for awhile and see how it ends up.
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Alternate approach: If the person really is a friend, then she/he should be able to accept feedback from you. If the rudeness happens in the presence of others, you might choose (the first time, anyway) to wait until you can talk to your friend in private. Sometimes people don't really realize that they are doing something that is seen as rude by others. If the rudeness is directed toward you, you can and should gently point out that the actions or words are hurtful, painful, insulting-- whatever is appropriate. Refer to the actions or words, not to your friend. You wouldn't say "You're insulting" or "You're rude". It would be something like "That comment is hurtful to me" or "I don't like being touched/hit that way". That way you can talk about the thing that bothers you without directly passing judgement on your friend. It might help to not escalate feelings. The first contribution is okay, but it isn't helpful to your friend to just take rudeness without helping your friend to see what is happening.
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What to do to your friend if she is being kind of rude to you and your other friends?
Confront her. Tell her it's not cool the way she's been acting and you don't have to put up with it.
Should you confront a friend over telling you lies?
tell them that therre rude an d shouldn't be friend with them as if lik =e my friend Hayden............
Friend being gay and touchy to other guys?
confront them, or if its you confront yourself
What do you do when your friend is being hurtful?
you can run from it, or you can confront them.
My best friend is lying to me and being rude how should I tell her to stop nicely?
"I feel that you are being rude to me. Can you please stop it and do not do it to me?"
What should you do if you're best friend is being mean to you?
tell that friend that you feel that their being mean to you. you shouldn't tolerate rude, or mean behavior from a friend.
If your friend is being rude and thinks she is doing NOTHING wrong what should you say but in a nicer manner?
"I feel like you are being rude". Don't accuse her, but tell her why.
If I am hanging out with one friend and later that day have to go to a meeting with another friend would it be rude to tell my first friend to stay at your house with your sisters friend?
If you do not plan on being at a meeting with your second friend for that long then no, it is not rude to ask your first friend to stay with your sister's friend and let your friend know you will be back at a certain time, but, if you are having a long meeting and will be late then yes, it's rude.
What should you say if a friend was mean to you?
If they are really your friend, just tell them flat out that they were being rude to you. If they are really your friend, they'll understand and might apologize.
How do you tell a friend that they are rude to you?
come out about it if ur friend is being rude or annoying you just tell them to stop! get all your self confidence out of you and just say it even if your shy dont worry about just tell them.
How do you confront two faced people?
They are really not worth the effort and not a friend. If you find you have to confront them make sure you have proof on both sides of being two-faced to prove or question whatever it is you need to.
Should you let your girlfriend keep a friend that was rude to you?
yes because itz not her problem if her friend was rude to you. you need to handle this in a mature responsible way. confront her friend and explain to her that you did not like what she/he was doing. if this problem reoccurs, explain to your girlfriend that you tried talking to this person and you feel as if they dont understand. if your girlfriend doesn't talk to her explaining everything then your problem might not be ur gfz bff it might be ur gf..................................................................
