How do you convince your boyfriend's parents to let him stay the night?

Answer 1

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i also think that you should talk to your mom trust me through experience, my mom hated my boyfriend the second she knew we was dating but me and her cant really talk about him but a month and 3 days later his mother came in to the hair salon where my mom works and she brought him and my mom was mad! She blamed me and I didn't even know he was coming but me and him was sneaking out to see each other, just hanging out and it was a couple weeks after that my mom realized that i really loved him and she let me be with him and we've been together for almost 3 months now and we have been through alot! Trust me let them call you first because I didn't get a great response because i called him first but, it was worth it i love him and I'm building my moms trust back slowly and you should just talk about him to her and make her meet him and then afterwards discuss with her about how you feel and that you want him to come over, and of course my mom will let me do things with him on the weekends but he hasn't met her or came to my house yet! I want him too so bad but yeah just build up your moms trust and fight for him if you love him, because he could be the one!

Answer 2

(All advice is generic and incomplete of necessity. Apply as fits, and use your own brains.)

What do they fear?

And why do you want to?

a)Let your boyfriend earn their trust.

Invite him over to your place, or let them come along to his.

b) Dispell their fears. If they fear he may seduce you

but you wouldn't mind tell them you'll use a condom,

should it really come to that, and that if you want to have sex,

they can't stop you anyway.

If they fear he'll drug and/or rape you.promise to drink only tap-water

from a washed glass you've washed and poured yourself.

Keep that promise.

Answer 3

Well tell them why you think you should and listen to their opinion,then if they have a good answer try to top it.Then before your mom asks your friends mom tell your friend to tell your mom that your coming so your friend's mom will invite you when your mom asks..............................................................................

Hope this helps!!!! It helped some of the people i know and for me but i really hopes it helps you!

Answer 4

Well, I am not that good, but You could argue your way out of it and then if she feels guilty( if that if the type she is) and do that. But if you do not want to do that just soften her up by bringing up good thing you have done in the past. If neither of them work I am sorry I am out of advise. I think I can improve this.... If your mom is still not giving in after you've asked her a billion times, just tell her that you understand that she is worried about what could happen, but reasure her that she can trust you. If she looks like she's about to give in, tell her that you will sleep on the floor or on a camp bed and he can stay in your bed. I really hope this helps :)

Answer 5

Most parents will not allow it because of the obvious chance that they don't want you fooling around. It's also a bit disrespectful to some people. What you need to do is be honest & mature; explain why you want to & let them know you actually want to be with your boyfriend. Don't lie & say you're "going to Amanda's" when you really intend to be with him. Not only will they not trust you or your boyfriend anymore, they probably will no longer approve of the relationship altogether.

Answer 6

They don't let him stay the night for a reason. They don't think he is mature enough to be responsible if something like you getting pregnant should occur. Just show them that you have the maturity and wherewithal to handle this situation should it arise. The maturity in you, they should recognize. As for the wherewithal, they are of course going to want to know how much money you make and what your employer's maternity leave benefits are. It takes a combined income of $50,000 a year minimum to raise one child that has the possibility of growing up healthy and getting a higher education. I am sure they would not want less. I wouldn't.

Answer 7

Quite honestly, you don't. At least if your parents are anything like mine. The only time it was even close to ok was prom night when it was a group all staying at his place. And they'll never be ok with it. You're their baby, and sleepovers mean sex.

Don't be too hasty to spend the night anyway. It's fun, don't get me wrong, but only because you get to cuddle. You can cuddle anytime, day or night. If it's really that big of a deal, cuddle in his bed during the day. You can close your eyes and pretend it's night and you don't have to tick off your parents!

Answer 8

Well I do not recommend lying to them at all. They're your parents and you want them to trust you as much as possible. If they said you cannot go to your boyfriend's house, then that's it. You need to accept it. Because think about this, when you're an adult and you start having kids, what if you don't want them going behind your back, or don't want them to do something? So you definitely should not go behind your parents' back. Your parents have control over you until you're 18, right? Where at 18 you can start making your own decisions. I know it's pretty hard to do as you're told, but like I said, you're gonna need their trust.

Answer 9

You won't be able to convince them. Some things are best left for marriage so just enjoy your younger years and leave something to look forward to in future years. If you "do it all" before you are out of your teens, then there is nothing to look forward to in your adult life.