Don't make a bit deal about it. If she keeps going on about how fat she is, just ignore her. Don't force her to eat or say you like her the way she is. Focus on other things that'll distract her - This is coming from a girl (me) who is struggling from an eating disorder, and trust me, the more people tell me that I'm skinny enough/I don't need to lose weight, the more determined I am to do so. Just change topics next time she brings it up. Hope this helps :)
try gentle encouragement , why not suggest working out with her
well,if it was me i wouldn't cuz on the inside tht counts
Tell them straight up. Say it worries you, it should. Obese is a problem.. Just say it!
No, you should just listen to her, and loose some weight, its nothing to be offended by.
Just be yourself.
Don't lie to her.
give her flowers
compliment her boobs
Tell her mom
tell her you will be safe and fine
you can't. maybe he is happy the way he is.
If your talking about high school wrestling then you should tell them that its good for you because you lose a lot of weight and its tougher than football builds character