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How do you deal with breaking off a relationship with your boyfriend of 4 years and have a child together when he was married with other kids and you told his wife about it and now everyone blames you?
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∙ 18y ago
I am afraid hon, that you asked for what you got. I'm not trying to be cruel, but you were well aware he was married with kids and you not only cheated on yourself, but on his wife. You shouldn't have gone to his wife, but kicked his backside out the door and went on with your life. Put yourself in her shoes! You have caused her a great deal of pain and perhaps ended his marriage and the children will suffer for it. I bet you didn't even think of that. I don't blame you (and others shouldn't either) as much as that jerk you went with. He hurt two women here and let his kids down big time! He took marriage vows and should have stuck with them. If he was so unhappy with his wife he could have divorced her. If there is a next time go for a single guy or a divorced guy and stop playing around with married men. When you get involved with a married man you will always end up the loser. Mistress' have no special power over the man anymore than his wife does and never forget this one "YOU don't have to live with the jerk like his wife does" so don't believe all the stories you may get from a married guy that "his wife doesn't understand him" or "she lazy, doesn't love him" and here's my favorite, "My wife is very ill and we can't have a sexual relationship and I really want to leave her, but can't do that while she is sick or I wouldn't be able to live with myself." Like right! This last one is used more often than you think because the young woman he's trying to have the affair with will feel sorry for him and then think what a great guy he is for not leaving his wife while ill. 9 chances out of 10 his wife is perfectly healthy, slaving her guts out to make a good home for him and raising his kids. The young woman will also think that once his wife is well, she'll get him all to herself and make his life much happier. Think of this ... if you became ill how long do you think he'd stay with you. It's a no brainer! Talks cheap, actions speak! Marcy
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∙ 18y ago
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Should i get back together with my boyfriend?
IF YOU HAD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP BEFORE.
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possibly...but probably not
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Leave, the relationship is over.
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Now that you and your boyfriend are together you take it slow. I promise any relationship that goes to fast will end fast. It always ends how it starts. :)
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Sort of ....... She keeps breaking up and getting together with him over and over again.....
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Does the girl know you like her? How long have you an and your boyfriend been together? And are you asking what should you do?
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If you suggested breaking up, then it is totally up to you. I doubt the first option will work. Once you break up, the chances are slim that you would actually get back together again in a year. If you want to stay together, then work on it now and stay together. I don't know your circumstances so I can't give real advice.
What can a boyfriend take in a break up?
a boyfriend is entitled to anything that he has given you during the relationship, or anything of his that is in your possesion from the last time you were together, however if it was a serious relationship, chances are, he's not going to rob you of those items, thus robbing you of your memories together
My boyfriend and I have very busy lives how can I keep us together?
It takes two to keep a relationship together. If he is as busy as you and wants to keep your relationship together as much as you do then being busy will not break you apart.
What activities are there to do with my boyfriend who is in a another content long-distance relationship?
There are many things you can do together even with a long distance relationship. You can Skype they also have games you can play together on the computer.
