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Answer If you have feelings of insecurity then perhaps you have a reason to feel that way. Perhaps it's time for a sit down with your husband and express to him how you feel and see his reaction. If he tries to make light of the issue perhaps you aren't feeling insecure for no reason. If on the other hand he tries to comfort you then perhaps you need to go and see a professional as maybe you have a problem that is now just coming to surfice from your childhood. Professionals often say that things that happened to us in our childhoods surface in us when we grow older, but we don't understand them. This may sound confusing but in reality it's not.
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∙ 16y ago
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∙ 10y agoYou have to start by identifying the causes for the insecurity. Is it a lack of trust of your partner? Is it a sense that you are not worthy of being loved? Do you have a guilty secret you do not want your partner to discover? What other causes may there be?
When you have identified the cause, think about the origin of the feeling. Have you felt insecure before? When and why did it start? What triggers the feeling now?
Discuss your concerns with your partner; - honesty is one of the essentials in a relationship. You may well find that insecurity is based on a fantasy and will disappear when you confront it.
Depending on how severe your insecurity is, you may find it helpful to contact a doctor or counsellor for support. On the other hand, once you have identified the cause you may find that there are websites or books that will help you further.
Acknowledging a problem is the first and most difficult step to take. The journey towards solving it may not always be easy but the hardest part is over.
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∙ 12y agoYou simply have confidant that your doing the Right thing
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How do you get my girl to deal with her insecurity before it kills any chance of moving forward in a relationship?
I don't think you can get her to deal with it. She has to deal with it on her own. You can tell her you love her, she's beautiful, and she's fabulous, but unless she knows she is - it's going to be difficult for you. Good luck!!
How do you use the word insecurity in a sentence?
He has insecurity about his self
What is a sentence for insecurity?
Sample sentences using "insecurity": Ellen was afraid her insecurity about her performance would be all too obvious. We were alarmed at the insecurity of their center of operations.
When was Witness Insecurity created?
Witness Insecurity was created on 2011-10-01.
What percentage of Americans experienced food insecurity in 2008?
15% Experienced food insecurity
Is insecurity a noun?
No.
What actors and actresses appeared in Insecurity - 2011?
The cast of Insecurity - 2011 includes: Sharam Vahday
What is the effect of file insecurity in a computer file?
the effects of file insecurity are: loss of data overwriting
What is insecurity?
A lack of security.
How does a impulse begin?
with an insecurity.
What are the Causes of violence?
Mostly fear and insecurity. Oh, and then there's Women. And greed. But still mostly fear and insecurity.
How to deal with a boyfriend who is upset that you have been with other guys?
reassure him that it was in the past and that you only have feelings for him. if he still gives you trouble then as hard as it may seem to deal with, you may want to consider breaking up because you cant change what was already done and if he cant accept it, that is his own insecurity, definitely not yours! =)
