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How do you deal with the fact that your husband has a relationship with another woman?
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∙ 18y ago
If neither one of you knew and he received a suprise that he is a father to another child..what can u do? NOTHING..it's not the child's fault...and i think he should take responsibility for this child and you as his wife or girlfriend should allow him to do so. It's only what you would want him to do if you were the other woman.
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∙ 12y ago
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∙ 13y agoThis is a sensitive issue.
If the child was conceived when you were not together, you must overcome any issues you have about its existence. Remember that it is not the kid's fault. Be the best step mom ever!
If the child was conceived while your husband was cheating on you, you'll need counseling in any event. If your husband won't go with you, that's a bad sign. Still, remember, it's not the kid's fault. Treat the kid like every kid deserves to be treated: with love. Encourage your husband to be a real father.
You have to decide if you still want to be with your husband if he cheated on you. That's a separate issue. If he will go to counseling and stop cheating, you have a chance. If he won't, you should plan how to leave him.
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Wow this is a bit serious, complicated in a lot of ways. If the man I married other woman got pregnant, I will let him go because the child didn't have anything to do with the betrayal he did me. That child was conceive with love and affection to the other woman, not because he was turn on and excited because hiding is fun. No matter if the man is married or single, that man needs to make amends to that child that was conceive, period.
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∙ 18y agoThese COULD be the signs of your husband seeing another woman: Working late, but if you phone on occasion he's not available at work Phone calls and if you answer the person hangs up Your husband is dressing nicer and keeping himself more tidy Leaves the house often and doesn't tell you where he's going Is constantly late for dinner Has phone numbers in his wallet without a name next to it When he gets home he can smell of perfume Possible lip stick on his shirt, or skin Breaks dinner engagements with you often Makes too many excuses for working late Takes off in the car and doesn't let you know where he is going Please be aware that many men can work late and that's exactly where they are. Sometimes husbands are tired from work and may seem to lose interest in your sex life. Some husbands (40 and up) could be going through male menopause and become moody, somewhat depressed, lethargic around the home and a general disinterest in everyday life at home and with the children. It's best to pick a time alone and come right out and ask him if he is having an affair. Of course, he may well deny it (most men do unless caught red-handed) but you can also add: "If you aren't having an affair what is wrong?" If he becomes agitated and doesn't give you a straight answer then say, "Well, if you aren't having an affair, everything is fine then I don't like the fact you aren't even working on our marriage." List your grievances with him and don't judge him, but try to work them out. Don't let him off the hook! Also, be sure you aren't of a jealous nature and afraid he is having an affair when he isn't. If you can't talk together about your problems, then start! A marriage isn't anything unless you can communicate. If he refuses then pack your bags and go visit family for a week, but be sure you tell him where you are going and just tell him you want some "time out" for yourself. This may jolt him into trying harder in your marriage. Good luck Marcy
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How do you deal with it if you found out your husband married a Filipino woman?
The same way you would deal with it if it was any other woman.
How do you deal with the fact your husband has cheated and created a child outside of marriage?
Far better your question should read "How do you deal with the fact your husband cheated and created a child by another woman? Each person (Wife) will deal with this kind of situation in their own way. The shock will either break up her relationship with her husband, or she will forgive him if she has played a part in the circumstances leading up to his infidelity i.e not being able to satisfy his needs. There are two problems here, your own and that of the other woman and her child. Do you forgive your husband and try and solve your differences, obviously there are some. And what about the child, does the other woman want it, if not would you consider taking the child into your own family, after all your husband is the father. Do you have children of your own, what will become of them if you and your husband separate. It will take time to completely forgive your husband if you ever can. I cannot give you a satisfactory answer as there is to much at stake, but I would suggest that you try and forgive your husband and keep your family or your relationship together if you love him. Meet with the other woman and try and come to an agreeable solution regarding the child.
If I have proof my husband has been cheating should I tell the woman's husband?
If you have absolute proof that your husband is cheating with this other woman then you should deal with your own problems with your husband first and yes, the other woman's husband should know. This is not an uncommon problem and most people (whether a husband cheats with another man's wife or a wife cheats with one of her friend's husbands) is very common and the victim of the cheating generally does tell the husband or wife that their spouse is cheating with their spouse.
What would you do if your husband cheated on you twice with the same women?
I'm sorry to say this but your husband is already emotionally connected with the other woman. In scale of 1-10, when a married men get involve with another woman and he always get back to her mistress he is following his heart. In short your husband is in love with her. But if your husband only wanted sex from this woman, after the first time he will look for another one that he can be with. Why don't you talk to your husband and tell him that it's time to have a separate life so you wouldn't have to deal with his affair. The truth is, no one in their right mind will put up what the married man is doing...
What do you do if you are married to a gay man and you are a woman?
You deal with the relationship on those terms or you get out of it. If you both want to continue the relationship and you can deal with the fact that he is going to sleep with men it can work, but there are always going to be problems.
How does a married woman deal with their husband having a baby on them?
your question is rather stupid! u dont make sense
How would a Sunni woman deal with a husband that has withdrawn himself from the marriage?
She would have to talk to him about their marriage and whether or not they should stay married.
How do you deal with husband who says he and another woman are just friends?
If you truly love him and trust him then you should take his word for it. ANSWER: Well then if your husband says they are only friends, tell him next time they talk make sure that you can talk to her to. How about tell your husband that you want to invite his new friend to dinner at your house. If his face change because of what you wanted to do, then the evidence will be clear to you..
What to do when my husband's long time girlfriend will not leave him alone?
The best thing to do is back out of the situation and let your husband handle it. Tell him you have issues with the former girlfriend, and why. The worst thing you can do is sit and sulk in silence, but you deal with your husband, not the other woman.
How do you deal w gf who had casual sex w ur husband for 10 yrs upto few months before ur husband met U and Why would husband lie and say it was a short relationship long time ago and not on-going?
Well, somebody is lying.. Get them in a room together if the truth is what's more important to you.Sounds to me like maybe the woman had hopes of getting her hooks back in to him.Watch your husband's face if you can tell if he's lying.
What should I do when my husband texted another woman over 1000 times in one month he denies cheating but I don't believe him?
If you know your husband has texted this other woman a great deal then you must have read some of the emails. If there was no incriminating evidence in those emails with regards to them cheating perhaps they were not. If you have found not found the evidence and kept a few copies of those texts then you have no real proof. If this woman lives in the same town or city then the only way you can prove for sure your husband is cheating is by hiring a detective. Interview investigators and see what their price range is. Generally one weekend of an investigator following your husband should prove one way or the other if he is truly cheating on you with this woman. If you cannot afford an investigator then decide when you think he is seeing this woman (generally on weekends or working late at the office) and ask a girlfriend if she will join you to follow your husband in your friend's car to get the proof you need.
How do you tell your wife you consider it cheating when she is with another woman?
You didn't give us much to go on. Many women spend time together, but it doesn't mean they are cheating. If one woman is married or even both women it's not uncommon if there are relationship problems with the husband/boyfriend that one woman will reach out to another as far as staying at their home. If you have not caught your wife in a sexual relationship with another woman then it's best to keep quiet. If you have high suspicions then start communicating with your wife (but don't say anything about another woman in her life) and tell her you both need to either improve on your marriage or split-up. I disagree with the previous poster. IF you suspect your wife is having an affair regardless of which sex it needs to be brought out into the open and discussed because it needs to end if the relationship is to continue. How can you possibly ignore something like that, it would eat you up on the inside and explode on the outside if you pretend it never happened. But if you are just jealous because your wife is spending too much time with her friend then you are in the wrong, and your own feeling of insecurity are seeping through and will ruin your relationship and you should talk to your wife and possiby seek help from a counsellor. Everyone is entitled to friends and their partner has to deal with that.
