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How do you decide between two men and keep your childrens best interests in mind?
September 13, 2011 12:57AM
You might want to have both guys at your home at different times, and let your kids decide on which guy they like best. The guy who wants to enjoy time with them or the guy who only wants to be with mom. Remember, your children come first and you may choose one guy, but what are your reasons for choosing this guy over the other. One is a perfect lover, the other makes good money, you won't have to work anymore? You might want to take a piece of paper. Write down the names of both guys. Then write Postive and Negative next to each guy's name. Be honest with yourself and write down all the positive things about each guy and all of the negative things about them. Compare your answers, ask your children which guy they like without telling them about the list you made and see where that takes you.