How do you get a guy to like you when he likes another girl?

Answer 1

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• It may be worthwhile to just be patient. If he is focused on someone else, it may not be easy to get him to focus on you. It may just be a minor crush he has on the second girl, and if it isn't, maybe you should move on to someone who is free.
• So I know exactly what you are going through, and you have to just move on. Because if you wait for him and he knows you will, he will take advantage of you. He will "like" you when there's no other girls, but as soon as a new girl comes along chances are he will forget all about you until she leaves and then he will be right back with you... and I doubt if you want to be his back up girl...
• The best advice I can give: Remind him of what he liked about you before. With that being said, don't be desperate. Men are much more attracted to independent women and if it's obvious that you want him back, it may turn him off. If you guys are still friends, and talk occasionally, do NOT speak badly of this girl. He will probably think you are jealous and will not be attracted to that, at all. If it seems that he's crazy about this girl, then maybe it's time to move on.
• Just give it time after awhile he might realize that the other girl is not right for him. If not you may want to start liking someone else. Chances are you'll feel a lot better. And who knows maybe he'll start to like you again (in other words he might get jealous)
• I have been through this a couple times. I am dating this guy and we break up. Then this other guy I like said he would never ever date me again. But eventually... (What I mean by eventually is... about 30 minutes) we kissed that night and got together. Just say I am so sorry I did this to you. Please forgive me!
• Just try your best to win him back!
• Honestly, no matter what anybody says, you cannot get someone to like you. It depends on their own emotions and if they truly care about you they will come back to you, if not you wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't truly like you.
• If that guy you like is crushing on some other girl, maybe he's not the guy you thought of in your head. If you pictured him with you, and he's not. Then find some other guy. A true one, being a teenager isn't easy.... BELIEVE ME! and I know exactly how you feel, but there's probably some other guy in your high school who has a big crush on you, and would do whatever it takes to be with you, and you have no clue. He's just WAY to shy to ask you out. Remember, the guy doesn't always have to make the first move. Just be original. And this guy your talking about, doesn't seem like he's that into you, so why not look for someone who is? relationships may not last forever, but enjoy them before the opportunities are gone.

Answer 2

Find out who his interested in if the girl likes him back but she won't give him another chance then follow this steps. 1.Become friends with him and that girl find out what they went through if they broke up a lot then go to step number 2. 2.flirt with him casually but don't do it like oh wanna go out that will turn him off and make u a freak kinda. 3.learn stuff about him and tell him stuff about yourself. 4.whatch his eyes if his pupils get bigger and you both look at eachother straight in your eyes it's a sign. 5.ask the girl if she likes another guy if she does than hint the guy but do not tell him bad stuff about the girl that just makes the guy mad and won't talk to you until you say sorry. 6.when you are ready ask him who he likes but get a group of friends note:not just girls. 7.play would you rather or truth or dare note:your friends already know what to say because you told them. Tell them to say would you rather go out with another attractive girl that is in the school but no the girl he likes and say would u go out with t or u note:u-is urself n t is another girl. Then begin your game with who and when would get married? I did all this and I did not find this in the internet yesterday he said with me and 25 I hope it works for u and he was not playing he asked me out afterwards.

Answer 3

be flirty while at the same time play hard-to-get and dress/look your best to get him interested

Well it would be messing with his emotions to try that game with him. If he has gotten over you then you should leave him alone to get on with his life. There is no point in bringing a bad relationship back from the dead as it will end in disaster.

Answer 4

just be a compltet flirt and he'll get the idea sooner or later...

Answer 5

If he's into someone else then you've missed your chance.

Maybe he'll break up with her later, but don't count on it. For now your out of luck.

Move on.

Answer 6

if you never told him you like him tell him most guys like girls and are afraid to tell