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How do you get over loving someone?


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2017-09-29 03:23:02
2017-09-29 03:23:02

I'm not sure that you do get over loving someone you just need to find other ways of dealing with it. You need to move on with your life and put that relationship in the past. Try being honest with yourself about why the relationship did not work out and what you would like to be different in future relationships. That way you are being more positive about things. There is no need to get over loving someone - not really - it's too big to get over you just need to move on ! find another person to love.

time will make you get over that someone, in the meantime try to cope, even though its hard, different things work for different people, try to look into yourself to see what will make it better. Here was my situation, I really liked this guy a lot for a long time, like really a lot, then we fnally hooked up for like 2 months, he just made me feel so good, and then despite what he said that he had broken off with his ex for good, he went back to her. When we were together, I did all the wrong things to try to prevent break up, he'd say jump, Id say how high, cuz I wanted to be a perfect girlfriend and did not want to lose him at all costs. It hurt so terrible to know that he is with her, the way he was with me, I felt I was going crazy at times. I just wanted him so much. And then I started reading this website, I also read "why do men like bitches" and realized how 1st i was doing everything entirely worng. 2nd I also realized that I tried so hard to keep him for entirely different reasons. My dad is sick, and will die soon, and I cant face reality, and could not deal with idea of losing my ex. So when I thought about it, it was not that much about my ex, it was a whole lot more about my reality that I dont want to face, and when I realized it, it made me feel a little better about getting over him. 3rdly, he said some mean things to hurt me, he'd say he cant do sth cuz he will be with his girlfriend at that time, or comments to suggest i was not that good looking, even though in the end we decided we were not going to fight and made up of sorts, when i think about how he hurt me with those comments, how he hurt me by choosing his ex over me, i dont know if I will ever hav the same feelings for him that i had before when I felt so strongly about him and wanted to only make him happy. And if i cant hav those feelings for him, then i dont know what hed hav to do to bring them out again. I feel cheated, and because of that, good part of my feelings for him died. I still feel hurt, but at least it feels better not to be in love with him because he hurt me so bad.
i know how that feels. the fluttering pain in your heart, the increasing pinpoints of pressure in your mind, your heartbeat in your ears. but if you can't have them, you just need to let them go. that's all. it might take a while, up to even a few months or even years, but you can let them go. i promise. Just think about them less, because the reason you love them is because your brain still thinks of them as available. you need to think of them as unavailable. like i use to like of friends, but when i saw him with his girlfriend, something in my brain clicked. maybe it was because of the love in his eyes when he looked at her. maybe it was the way his arm was draped across her shoulders. maybe it was the utter bliss on his girlfriends face as she leaned against him...

sorry I'm rambling! just follow the advice above, and you'll realize they're just something you can't have, and your heart will be open to love again. good luck.


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