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How do you get over the hurt of a Narcissistic ex whos new partner or should i say new victim is my team leader and we all work at the same place and you have to see them every day?
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∙ 18y ago
There are two ways you can handle this. You can consider yourself lucky (even if he did break off with you) because he'd be one pain in the butt because he's full of himself. You can logically look at him and this new partner and know in your heart that she will soon be going through the same thing you are. You can start seeing friends and dating OUTSIDE THE OFFICE and when you see them smile, say nothing, and don't let him in on what you are doing on your free time. When you don't act like you care about the split-up that will really get this narcissistic jerk and he'll wonder what your feelings were really like because you will appear to have lost interest in him so quickly. You CAN get the ball back in your court. Secondly, you can change jobs and get away from the whole darn mess. I suggest you try the above. Of course your are hurt, grieving at the moment, feeling empty, as if it were your fault, and wondering what you did wrong. 9 chances out of 10 you did nothing wrong. Narcissistic people grow weary of their relationships fairly quickly, so he won't be with this girl that long and he'll move onto another. I would count your blessings instead of being too upset. After all, you could have married this jerk! Good luck hon Marcy I just want to add that.... I think you should consider this a Godsend that he's out of your life. Finding a new job seems logical and you certainly deserve better than pretending that an abusive fantasy is a safe loving place you'd want to be. Good luck and do some research and healing before you begin seeing someone else. Tremusan
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