How do you get over the love of your life if he is too scared of change?

I know love hurts (as the song says) and we've all been through it. We can't win them all. He may not want to change. He may like things the way they are and doesn't want to complicate his life further. Just accept the way things are and try to go out with your friends and have fun and one day you'll meet some really nice guy. We all do! Good luck hon Marcy