I think letting down children goes with the territory, no matter what your philosophy is. It is because they are individual people and they can see actions of others differently than they were intended. Giving them what they ask for and what you think they will want to keep them happy doesn't guarantee that they really received what they wanted and you can't make anyone happy. Just be the best mom you can be for each kid--you shouldn't treat them equally since they each have different needs. Let them know that you love them and are glad they are here and let them work for or contribute to the things they get and they will be well-prepared for the outside world.
I tried to do it ALL with my eldest son when I was 27 and he was 1...couldn't do it and the best illustration of that was about that time (1980) a Basketball star spent a day doing everything a 2 year old did...well he tried.
Everybody gets bored doing work they don't want to do. As you mature, you just learn how to buckle down and get the work over with instead of letting it discourage you.
Small children have a fear of anything they don't understand. At about 1 year to a 1.5 years old this fear is extreme. Watch small children around the Easter Bunny and Santa in a photo shoot in the mall. They scream and cling to mom. Clowns fall into this and many children over come the fear. Clowns don't look "normal" and children recognize this.
Letting a child roll down a hill in any tire is not the safest way to let them play. The child could always fall out before coming to a stop, resulting in the possibility of the tire rolling over the top of them.
Several children died during an outbreak of measles in Dublin because they had not received the vaccine.
There is no easy way to get over the fear of going to the doctor. You can try hypnosis to help you get over your fear, or you can talk to a therapist to help you over the fear.
gust don't look down. ps. humans can't fly.
In snowboarding people fear falling over
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Winston finds children terrifying because they are indoctrinated by the Party from a young age and are encouraged to report any suspicious behavior, even that of their parents. This indoctrination creates a sense of betrayal and fear for Winston, as he knows that children are capable of turning against their own family members to uphold the Party's ideals. Additionally, children are seen as a symbol of the Party's control over future generations, further instilling fear in Winston.
Avoid it.
With practice.