Heres what you do. Get "hurt" on his property. File a law suit and get all the money back. Although there are also other ways involving the removal of his "manliness".
Rather than seeking revenge, focus on healing and moving on from the situation. Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to process your emotions and regain your strength. Remember that revenge often leads to more negative emotions and it is healthier to let go and focus on your own well-being.
Verbal agreements are only understood by those who arranged the agreement, so theoretically the other party (the boyfriend) can lie about the arrangement, stating that the money was a gift. I wouldn't suggest loaning money to anyone unless there is a written agreement or if you are willing to accept the possibility that the money you lent might never be returned. Depending on the amount of money you loaned (I'm assuming under $10,000 which is tax free in the US), it may or may not be a cost effective way to getting your money back. The worst possibly scenario is that you will waste money by pursuing a lawsuit and never get your money back from the boyfriend. If you still plan to file a lawsuit, it will probably be helpful to provide your attorney with information about what the boyfriend used the money for. Here is a site that might be of value: http://moneycentral.msn.com/content/Savinganddebt/Savemoney/P84389.asp You could always threaten the boyfriend that you will confront his wife about the loan and the affair if he refuses to sit down with a mediator.
people have the right to make a lawsuit out of anything, but for something like that you would spend a lot more money in court fees than the phones worth
He can file a lawsuit against you, but more than likely a judge will side with you. A joint account is considered joint property and it is almost impossible to sort out whose money is whose.
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A lawsuit is an action a person takes in the court of law when they feel wronged by another person or company seeking money from damages.
How is money awarded or decided in workers compensation cases?
Money and revenge
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The government taxes you on everything!
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You will need to follow due process of law. Which begins with filing a lawsuit in the court of jurisdiction. If you win you petition for a writ of judgment and then execute it against any of his nonexempt property. There is also wage garnishment and bank account levy options. Winning a lawsuit does not automatically mean you are going to get the money owed you.