How do you get rid of a rumor?

Answer 1

Unfortunately, there's no way to do that; the best thing you can hope for is that it fizzles out on it's own. Everyone has spread a rumor at least once, and I don't think any of us takes into account how awful it is to be speculated about until it personally affects us.

If you try to confront it head on, it only fans the flames and makes people believe there is some truth to it. Even if you stay silent (and you should) some people still will feel it's because you are unable to deny the gossip. If feels like a lose-lose deal.

The only thing you can do is act like it does not affect you. Act positive and confident, say good things about others and treat them in the manner you'd want to be treated. Be friendly but not personal with acquaintances and strangers; think about what you say about yourself and who you say it to. Steer clear of people who continually attempt to probe into your personal life. When you hear gossip about other people, say nothing about it then and don't spread it later. Let your character and your actions speak for you.

Answer 2

You have to tell a guy that you love them. then you wont be lez.