How do you get rid of feelings you have for someone you see everyday?

Answer 1

: Just take it one day at a time.to deal with it. If it ever gets too bad and you don't think you can handle it, you can asked to be transferred to a different department or building/store, etc. If this is not an option, you may need to find another job, but that should be a very last resort. You should give it a while and a lot of thought before changing your whole life to avoid a person.

: I have been in love with a guy for three years who doesn't feel the same, so I decided to try and get over him once and for all. It is soooo hard, but I made a list of his bad points, and then picked one everyday (e.g that mole you have always hated, the way he drinks his coffee, that shirt he wears that makes him look fat), then whenever I saw him that day I would focus on that point. Then pick another one the next day and so on. When you have spent an entire week concentrating on all his bad points, it is hard to like them again!

: This was a hard one for me. I dated a good friend that sat across from me in the department. It didn't work out, the friendship was ruined forever, and to top it off, I had to see him 5 days a week for 8 hours a day. I was so miserable and really wished that one of us would leave, but neither did at first. To get over it, I decided that instead of doing the silent treatment, which both of us were guilty of, to treat him as a regular coworker and force myself to have regular people conversations with him. That was hard because on the inside I was hurt, but on the outside, I looked normal, but it made me feel better that he still talked to me. It took time, but eventually, I came to view him as just a guy in my department that didn't realize what he had let pass him by. That was 2 years ago, and we both have moved to new departments, and now, sometimes when I see him, he fades into the background with everybody else.

: This is really really hard! So I will not even lie and say hey you are gonna breeze through it. I fell in love with someone and see them not 5 days a week but 7 YEA TOP THAT! Mine was close to marriage. anyway you have to keep your self busy at night. Get a part time job, one big thing that helped me is get a journal and write everything you are feeling. Prayer is a biggie too, most important, give it to the Lord, easier said then done. Tell your self out loud, I DONT NEED HIM OR HER, I CAN DO THIS, Then start to think of all the good things about your self and dwell on them. In due time you will get through it. Do Not Dwell on the situation!

: well this has happened to someone i know and you shouldn't let him know that you r still interested that is if you still r. If not you will be able to see him at work and many other places too. if it is getting to hard foryou just talk to sum1 bout it, it does make you feel better

: Here is the truth on this one. For as crappy as you will feel, you do ALL YOU CAN to get your body in the best shape possible, the right way through diet and exercise, not unhealthy practices. Once you start exercising something else magical will happen to you. People will sense it and you will also have a better sense of who you are, be far more confident, far less stressed, etc...People will be drawn to you and other people will even flirt with you, be attracted to you. You have to do this on a regular routine. You do all you can to MAKE SURE you do not seem like you are in the least bit interested in that guy. After a few months he won't be able to stand it!! If only to prove to himself that he still has you hooked, HOWEVER, do not, repeat, DO NOT go back to him. The BEST revenge is to be the best you can be and to be a success. At that point, other things will have happened that are even better than "whatshisname". Sounds too simple but many a people will tell you that it works magic.

: Get a new job.

: That's a hard one. You will have to suffer some and keep yourself as preoccupied as possible with your life and work. Have fun! Work at helping yourself bring closure to the relationship in ways that you can on your own. I haven't had it happen to me, but I've had to see a person I broke-up with because we have the same social group. It is really hard and I always am impacted someway by the communication, or lack of communication we have. If I had to continue to see him I would probably talk to him, tell him why I was bitter towards him and apologize for some things myself. But he is going away to college for a year. Instead I keep reminding myself that he wasn't that into me and that I don't want to initiate any reconciliation (not trying to get back-together just make things "right") with someone who has ceased to treat me like a friend. Think about it, pray about it and be strong and move on. just not talk to them

Answer 2

AnswerI'm currently going through the same situation, and I know how hard it is. But the best thing that you can do is to ignore him, and distract yourself with other things such as friends or a favorite hobby. And if he tries talking to you and starts bringing you down, just walk away. Talk to a trusted friend or person, write a not to him, and then burn it or tear it up and throw it away. Get rid of everything that reminds you of him. I'll be praying for you

Answer 3

well you just face the fact that you're over and you just need to move on. maybe you guys will get back together or are just better off good friends or not friends at all! so try to be nice and still move on! one big important thing is to not act FAKE. Too happy or super depressed. Just be yourself, but don't make it seem like you're 100% okay if you're not- you don't want to seem heartless.

Answer 4

• First love is always the most hurtful. Because you have to see him every day remind yourself that your first love is not in most cases the last love that will be in your life. Love hurts, but you can get over it in time by going out with your other friends and you are now free to date anyone you feel like dating.

Answer 5

Take bits by bits in not going to him or her, or thinking of him or her everyday. You could also think of getting a girlfriend or boyfriend to ease the pain between you two. It's going to take some time honestly, however, in the end if you truly want this, it'll work.

Answer 6

Think of all the bad points they had. Then when you start wishing you were with them, think of the bad points and realise you can find someone better. Its a cliche but it does get easier.

Answer 7

You can do that by leaving them alone. Treating them unless if you are trying to say that you are tired of seeing them everyday, I can answer it better.

Answer 8

The best way to get rid of feelings for a person you see everyday, is to focus on something else. See if there is a way for you to have a relationship that is benefiticial to both of you.

Answer 9

find a new one!