How do you get your boyfriend back if you broke up with him a month ago and now he won't even speak to you?

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I once had a girlfriend who broke up with me unexpectedly and it really really hurt me and now about a year later we have really started talking to each other a lot and I'm getting a strong feeling she likes me again but I'm really scared and it makes me cry because I want her but I don't know if she will do it again and i just can't deal with that. Only you know why you broke up with him and it should be for a good reason because you broke his heart. Women seem to think they have the corner on broken hearts, yet men can have deep and hurt feelings too; they just don't express it in the same vocal manner as a woman. I have no idea why you broke up with him, but if you simply met someone else you cared more at the time then consider the fact you have learned a very costly lesson. If it was your boyfriend with the problem to cause you to break off then why go back! Marcy If you really want to win him back, wait a while. Make him feel like you broke up with him for a reason, because if you start talking to him right away, it will only confuse him. Create space between you two and when you think you've had enough time apart, call him up. He may not act like he wants to hear what you have to say, but he is curious. Since you broke up with him, you should be the one to call him. Now do that and you will have him back! To the first poster. She broke the trust you had in her and don't be afraid to let her know that. Make her earn your trust back while still being pleasant with her, but don't EVER let her think you are a sitting duck for her to do this again. You set the rules and you tell her that every so often you need head space and don't let her think she can snap her fingers at you and have everything her own way. Women or men don't really respect people they can manipulate. Remember, people are only human and they can make mistakes so take it slow and easy and don't rush into another relationship immediately. Date her, but keep her guessing and make her earn that trust from you! People will always make mistakes, but when they don't learn something from that mistake the first time around then I'd kick them to the curb.