Make him not notice. Persuade him. The question is very unclear.
They don't have one. They go around griefing other peoples servers.
There are no good servers to grief. Especially in 1.4.2. Griefing is for rookies.
Type in the IP address or Hamachi address of your friend's correctly or play the premium Minecraft. Myncraft1: Your friends has to be on (Hamachi) to connect to his server
all servers pretty much don't allow griefing or raiding. you just need to learn how to on that specific server. here is a fun server i know: biocraft the ip is: play.mcbiocraft.com
You should be able to. Contact your friend and see whether or not he or she set up the server right.
well sorry just new to sever makeing my new one is :25565 enjoy :D
Yes, by default the world will save when the server stops. I have found even when the server crashes, it will still save the world. Any issue involving the Minecraft server saving is 9 times out of 10 probably not the server, rather something else (i.e. griefing - or when a user destroys creations by another user).
That is private server that he uses with his friends. There is no chance you could join, except if you are his friend. You will never get the IP. Deal with it.
any server that will trust you and the admins like you and you have not done anything bad like griefing or spamming and there is a reason why you would make a good addition.
I think it's because your friend has to make a hamachi network, and you need to join it.
There are no friend requests in Minecraft unless the server you are on has a specific mod for it. If so, ask around the server for specific instructions.
You can add friends on any server with a new Minecraft plugin called FriendsForMinecraft available at the related links below.