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ANSWER ONE:
My friend's mom died a while ago. It is hard to get over it. The way to get over it is to do activities and/or other things to keep your mind off it.
ANSWER TWO:
I'm sorry, from my own experience you don't get over your mom dying. No matter how old you are, you just get used to living your life without her. Your mom is a one and only, you grew in her womb, she gave birth to you. When you were a tiny baby your mom took care of all of your needs, she was the one person who could always tell what your cries meant and she could always make you feel better.
As you grew older, your mom could always be counted on to love and support you. But also tell you if you could do better and only mean it, for your well being. Her love for you is endless.
After her death, it might be hard to talk about your mom to anyone, then one day you realize you you are talking about her and a smile is creeping across your face, as you think about something she did for you or others. Then it happens again and you realize it is not painful to think about her anymore, at least not all of the time.
Around the Holidays you might feel sad, especially if your mom did a lot of decorating or baking. If you don't feel like celebrating the Holiday's, that's OK. If you do want to celebrate because it makes you feel closer to your mom, that's OK too. You just need to do what you need to do. No questions asked, no excuses given.
At some point in time you realize the best way to honor your mom, is to live your life in a way she would have respected. If your mom had a favorite charity, when you have a couple extra dollars, you could make a donation in your moms name. Charity doesn't mind if it is only a dollar or two. They are always grateful and gracious.
If your mom died from an illness or accident caused by someone else, you might enjoy volunteering your help, if money is tight. The American Heart Association or Breast cancer Research, even Families against Drunk Drivers. All these organizations have fund raisers that need volunteers.
Sometimes kids feel guilty when their mom dies unexpectedly, they think they should have been a better kid, done more or helped more, while their mom was alive. But you should try to get over this feeling. You can't change the past, all you can do is try to be the best you can be in the future. If you loved your mom, that is all she would have wanted from you. If you now live your life in such a way that honors your mom's life, you will have turned out the best she would ever hoped for.
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∙ 14y ago
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∙ 11y agoI supose that you have to first admit that it was either you or your mother which caust the rift between you both. Next is to sit down and resolve your differences, each agreeing to make allowences for each other. Find some common ground on which to start, maybe the happy times you spent together with your family. Then find out just when things started to go wrong for you both. Remember the point of discussing things is not to put the blame on each other, but to find some common ground on which to build again that which you have lost. Keep all nagative thoughts out of you mind, but think only of only the good things which you have lost having a desire to rekindle that loving relationship which once existed.
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