Find a method of communication where you get the best results. I have a sister who I cannot stand being in the same place with more than a few hours, but we have a great online relationship that I have enjoyed. If you send letters, include the interesting parts of your life as they might see them and exclude anything that approaches the bone of contention. Or, just send holiday cards--there are lots of holidays--and at least you know that they are alive if the letters don't come back.
No question ... long distance.
No. Unless your relationship is so bad that it is a threat to your kids, or to you, then you are probably planning to stay together. Think of your relationship being like a garden: you don't have to spend ALL your time on it, but if you don't give it any love and care at all, it will just wither and die. Try to keep it equal to your kids and other family.
Her kids must be very important to her or she wouldn't have left you for them, this is the way it should be. If you want a relationship with her, move to be near her. If you don't want a long distance relationship and you've had problems with her in the past, then it is time to distance yourself emotionally. Have a talk with her and break it off so you can both move on. The quickest and easiest way to resolve this is to say "no" at the beginning. Distance is an issue for you at this point and you should respect what is important to you. Sometimes practicalities take over what is important in your life.
She may have just said this in a fit of anger. Has there been any talk of separation or divorce? If not, I suggest you do nothing, but keep on doing what you can to keep your relationship going. She may have had some lesbian thoughts before marriage, but she apparently was able to have a 12 year relationship with you and raise four kids. It's in the interests of both of you, and of the kids, to keep this going if you can.
because they have no sense with what is right and clam that the kids are flirting with them
He loved his kids. He had no relationship with his wife
Yes, she is married with kids.
no...you should not continue your relationship with him.
Your kids and my sister's husband bear no relationship to each other. It is extremely unlikely that they even know each other.
no! the below answer is all wrong!! marraige and kids arent part of a serious relationship. serious relationships just involve loving each other. and besides, kids are a pain, why would you want them? ---- If they never want to get married or have kids then the serious part of the relationship is all yours. They are just there for the ride.
i usually tell my kids to keep the pjs on then ill give them a treet but i never give them suger i manly grab a strawberry or a banana some kind of fruit that's sweet and contains no suger then they usually listin to me but mostly it matters on what kind of parent you are and what kind of relationship you have with oyur kids.
yes it is very usual for kids to be in a relationship of any age my son was in a relationship with a girl at the age of five and they even kissed. my son is now 13 and he is still in a relationship with the same girl and they have never broken up