Feelings will come and go. Feelings will be hurt and are hard to mend.
What matters are keeping the commitments and trust in a relationship, regardless of feelings.
Why do you want to keep a close relationship with your ex? It sounds like you still have feelings for him.
Money has nothing to do with a relationship in this sense. A relationship where you give someone money has to be separated from a relationship where you have feelings for them. Keep these two separate transactions until you are married
If you have feelings for your ex, but are in a relationship, i suggest you break up with your current girlfriend/boyfriend, and see if your ex still has feelings....
yes feelings can change all the time
Well, first off it depends on how much you like the person your in the relationship with... If you think about it and don't have that much feelings for him then you probably should end that relationship, it's not good to keep leading the person on if the feelings aren't the same. As for the other person you like you should find out if he likes you and what you like about him, however don't try to rush into another relationship right away...
Ask your self the question how would I feel if my current boyfriend is planing to resume a relationship with some one else. Keep in mind that people nearly always keep good feelings about past relationships,
If she is truly your best friend, then you will have to trust her to keep her feelings in check and respect your relationship with YOUR boyfriend. Encourage her to meet other guys and go out.
U go to jail.
Listen to what your heart is saying about the relationship? Do you really like this person?
Talk to him about it. If you're in a relationship you should be open and honest with each other about how you feel. Don't keep your feelings bottled up and give him a chance to talk about his.
he's not over you and/or the relationship itself
That depends upon what kind of "relationship" you are in. If a person is in a serious relationship that is supposed to be leading to marriage, one needs to be cautious as to what they are thinking about one they "have a crush on" as it can lead to behavior not acceptable to the other partner. It's best to "school your feelings" about others outside of your "relationship". (In other words, keep your mind on improving your "relationship" instead on others.