How do you know if your boyfriend wants to use you?

Answer 1

It depends if he's talking to other girls a lot. If you ask to go see a movie and he says can I invite some friends that may be a sign he's leading you on, but that's just my advice to you. If he's truly your boyfriend he should treat you like your the only girl in the world.

Answer 2

A boy is using you if he only wants sex. He never takes you out on dates...movies, parties, hanging out, shopping. He only wants to be with you when the two of you are alone and have sex. He only phones you to arrange to meet for sex. He only comes over to your place when you are alone in order to have sex. He only takes you out in the car to park and have sex. He may also want you to do lots of unusual sex like anal and deep throating without a lot of regard for your pleasure, but his own. He probably won't come around when you are having your period unless he wants only anal, or oral sex from you.

Answer 3

They tend to only come around, spend time with you or talk to you when they what something and going to get something from you.

AnswerWell, from experience, you know when they only call you when its convenient for them. If you find yourself making all the attempts and your calling/texting them and they aren't being responsive. You have to check to see if you guys are in a relationship. "BOYS" are always seeing things different than girls.... AnswerHe doesn't take you on that much dates and when he does you pay and he doesn't pay much attention to small problems. Answer"boys" tend to be selfish, you must be able to spot it in all its disguises,or pay a heavy price. Selfishness is best seen at a distance..if you know what i mean. You don't need to get "close "to a snake to know its dangerous. cherish and learn to be unselfish yourself and you will spot it elsewhere. Seek this first before those" sweet feelings" and your foundation of your true identity will shine and from that view point you will see the difference very easily, and you will rise above the masses of humanity who use and attempt to out use each other, a terrible game of hate in the name of love. Answer When he is grabby or touching you aggressively.Meaning he wants something from you or you.But has no interest in sticking around for you.When he imitates movies or TV shows when he talks and never speaks from his own words.Tries to fake romantic talk.Uses the word "My girl/Baby/Sweetheart/Sweety/Sugar (or any flavor like description of you or your body or child like description)"rather than your own name or age.

This is the sign of a person who does not care for your feelings or interest.They will even say they aren't interested in it.It is not OK.

When he puts his hands on you or rubs you when you first meet.

When he or they Drive up in a car and talk to you directly asking if you need a favor so he can ask for one in return.(This is mostly sexual.)

Any man playing there stereo loudly from there car to attempt to get your attention.(Specificly Dance songs).

Guys that want you to get involved with sports.(Not exercising.)When he behaves lazily,asking you to do something every 5 minutes.Asking you to gain weight or get a Tattoo.(This is a method to separate you from others by bind you to a idea of what they think of you.Thus using you.)

Answer 4

When he never does anything for you!! never there and dosent care .. that's when you KNOW FOR A FACT he is USING you!!

Can I add to that answer a little bit? If a guy seldom or nevers sees things YOUR way, doesn't think of YOUR desires or concerns, if the relationship is all about what HE wants and what HE needs - and the only thing he ever gives you is words and moves - - he's not worth your valuable time!

Answer 5

if he constantly asks you to do something for him, ask his friends(only the ones that promise to tell you the truth), he always wants you to dress a certain way or somethting, if he asks you "when are we gonna have sex?" or kiss(whatever fits in that blank) dont feel pressered to have sex, sex does not equal love, and love does not equal sex. you can HAVE LOVE WITHOUT SEX.

Answer 6

If he doesn't keep dates. If he never phones. If you leave messages for him even by email and he doesn't answer. If he speaks to you with little respect. If he doesn't want to be around friends or doesn't have you around his friends. If he's always out with his mail friends or goes to parties without you. If he seldom asks you out or speaks to you in a disrespectful manner. If he bums money off you and never pays it back. If he rude to you, your family or your friends. If you don't stand on your own two feet and expect the best as far as respect goes then you won't get it! Tell this guy straight up that you've had enough and he can either start treating you with some respect or he can hit the road. 'If you lay down with dogs you get up with fleas!' This simply means you are judged by whom you date and your friends. You are in total control regarding the type of respect you feel you deserve. Don't let yourself down!

Answer 7

if he acts suspicious, he may not care about you much, he may say no to some dates. You feel used.

Answer 8

If he never takes you anywhere.

If he gets mad when you don't have sex with him.

If he makes you pay for things all of the time.