How do you know if its love at first sight with a person who has a boyfriend and lives across the states and if she feels the same way?

Answer 1

It's love at first sight if you felt this intense attraction to her. Although love at first sight doesn't mean you have compatible personalities and would have a successful relationship.

I think its just a sexual attraction, because usually if you're sexually attracted to someone you won't be able to have clear judgment on how that person is. In other words, you can spot a beautiful attractive girl and imediately be sexually attracted to her (just wanting sex) and end up ignoring the bad attitude and personality she may have. So you should ask you'reself, do you often have sexuall thoughts about this gilr?, If so then its not love at first site, because you can be attracted to someone but not be sexually attracted. Also she will not be the only one that you'll find attractive, so don't be so sure on basing you're feelings on her. Theres always another attracive face somewhere that will probably catch you're eye, but I guess it all depends on how well and how long you've known this person that you like. Besides, shes already in a relationship, if you both be together while shes with her boyfriend, it will be considered cheating. Also IF she leaves him for you then theres a 50/50 chance that she'll leave you for someonelse, but if her boyfriend leaves her then that's another story.

To the one who answered my question:

Ok I met her a few days ago. She was with her boyfriend. He seems to be a really nice guy. But I think for some reason that she was attracted to me too. It just seemed to be all there. Like we already knew each other but we don't. I mean we talked about what we do and stuff and it seemed all natural like we knew each other, but we were learning about one another. And there was this feeling like a warm feeling inside. I don't know what it is. Hope you get this message and thank you.