How do you know if you are still in love with someone?

Answer 1

This is truly a hard question to answer. When all of us first meet that special someone rockets go off, we can hardly wait to see that person and life is one big bowl of cherries. After a few months to a few years you get to know each other quite well, and sometimes we can be bored with each other. That's why relationships (married or not) can be so difficult ... we have to keep things different and exciting to a point.) We have to give each other head space to do some things with friends or on our own.

We all get bored with family, friends, our jobs, or even ourselves. If you're bored do something about it and talk to her and both of you can surely come up with an idea of making your relationship a little more exciting. There is just more than sex that's important ... there is a whole wide world out there and much to do and see.

Please don't make the mistake of a little boredom messing up a great relationship. I suggest you go on a vacation or on a 2 weeks holiday with male friends and have a blast. This will usually let you know how much you really miss that person.

I've been married for a long time so you have to work triple duty to keep that marriage peaceful, exciting to a point and have fun. Doesn't mean I don't love my husband. We've managed and we've had a good fun ride through life, but also weathered some difficult storms. There is nothing greater than sharing your life with someone because of the tough times out in this world. Your friends or family can't possibly fill that last little bit of a hole in your heart and soul ... it takes someone you love.

Think about that vacation and do while you are on it, it's time you brought out the heavy guns and were honest with yourself about why you are bored. It's just not up to her to keep you entertained, it takes two. Be fair to her and if, after the vacation you have come to the conclusion that you are not suited to each other then you are going to have to communicate this to her.

Answer 2

if you have to ask,you're not. not true does it hurt to be away from that person do u glow when your around them do they make u feel funny when your around them do they drive u crazy when you have to leave and when your away???????????

Answer 3

All relationships at the beginning are exciting and the couple can't get enough of each other, but time can take it's toll. Every relationship goes through a stale period or two and it doesn't matter who you choose to be with. Then children come along and it feels to some young women that life simply ends because they are usually at home cooking, cleaning and looking after a child or two. Your mate is working and getting out in the world while you are probably staying at home feeling like you are missing something or working, raising your child and catching up on chores. It's time for you both to mature. COMMUNICATION is the key in EVERY relationship and without it you have nothing! Sit down with your boyfriend and express how you feel. See if you can't trade off with a girlfriend to take your little boy once or twice a month on a Saturday night and you and your boyfriend can go out and have some fun and by doing this you aren't paying for a babysitter (you can look after her child(ren) on alternative weekends. No one ever said a relationship was easy and you have to start communicating more with each other and making decisions on having a little more fun in your relationship. Perhaps you could even go away for a couple of days on a weekend. If you leave your boyfriend you'll just be trading off one set of problems for another. It's time to grow up!

Answer 4

Look at her and if you feel your self acting strange, like your heart beating faster or you are breathing faster or just feel something special when you look at them, you probably have a thing for them.

If you still love a girl you will smile when you see them. You won't want to be with any other girl, just her. If you still have feelings for her you should talk to this girl about them (I know it seems unmanly,,but the girl will respect it <3 :D) but it is better then you wishing you did.</3

Answer 5

you can tell if u still have feelings for them if like when ur around them u get all happy and ur heart wont quit beating and when ur away from them u miss them soo much u just want to be with them in their arms.......

Answer 6

If you care for him/her , if you worry for him/her, if you love him/her.

Answer 7

if your not sure, take a break from one another. If its meant to work out you'll come back together.

Answer 8

wen he comes around from time to time and can have a settled conversation with u like if u and him talk about old times together

Answer 9

If you start not getting excited every time he or she texts you... or even sees youu...