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ANSWER The best way to find out if your husband is cheating is just to ask. If you know your husband then you will be able to tell if he is lying. Most men cheat with someone they work with, so make friends with their co-workers and they will let you know. You will hear rumors but they may not always be true. So trust your instinct! If your husband is truly cheating the the truth is you already know. Most importantly, men almost never actually love women for long periods of time. Truly, I would cheat on my husband, but I love him.


First, you have a gut feeling, one of suspicion and mistrust. Then, you might notice changes in his behavior; in the quality of his clothing or cologne, along with protectiveness of his communication devices (computer, cell phone, etc.). You also might notice a change in his routine, and making excuses for coming home late, or needing to travel. Increased defensiveness to your inquiring questions (rather than reassuring statements and empathic, affectionate responses) becomes more likely, as well.

If you have been begging for him to help out around the house for EVER, and he suddenly wants to do all of the laundry, it could be because he doesn't want you sifting through his clothes and finding evidence.

If he's never worked an hour of overtime in his life and all of a sudden is putting in long hours - unless he just got a promotion or started a new job this could be a sign he's making time for something or someone besides you.

If he's never been concerned about his personal grooming habits or weight, and all of a sudden he wears cologne, manscapes, and joins a gym - he could be trying to be sexy for you but it's entirely possible he's trying to be sexy for someone else.

If his car used to resemble a dumpster, and suddenly it's spotlessly clean all the time - especially if he removes the child seat(s) when the kids aren't going to be around - it's might be he doesn't want you to know who has been in the car or that person to know you and your family exist.

If he never was very affectionate or surprised you with gifts for no reason - and now he's greets you with kisses and roses - he could just be making up for lost time but it's also possible he feels guilty about something.

The key to all of this is behavioral patterns. If your guy has been talking about wanting to make some changes for the better, and finally acts on it, be supportive until you have solid fact to the contrary. Don't go hiring a PI if he does one or maybe even two of these things but, just make mental notes and watch out for the biggest sign of ALL:

Sudden need for personal privacy is a HUGE clue. If he never used to behave in the following way and now: takes phone calls privately, changes and doesn't save his computer passwords, freaks out if you touch his phone or computer, and gets defensive when you ask normal things like "how was your day?" or "how come you were late?" - WATCH OUT - especially if there are other signs. It's possible he's just planning a surprise party for you, but it's also possible he's been having a party with someone else.

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How do you know if your husband is cheating on you?

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How do you know if your husband is not cheating any more?

There really isn't a way to know if your husband is not cheating any more. You will need to trust that when he tells you he is not cheating that he is not. Of course, you could hire a private investigator to follow him 24/7.

How do you know if your husband is cheating when you are living so far a part?

There are no certain ways you can know if your husband is really cheating on you because there is a great distance between you. If you have suspicions then you should start communicating your concerns to your husband and that's the best you can do. You can never know for sure.

What is the definitition for cheating?

cheating is doing anything you wouldnt want your wife/husband or girlfriend/boyfriend to know about

How do you know if your husband is telling the truth about not cheating?

all men cheat

How do you talk to your husband about his cheating?

You are in total control of yourself and you don't need permission or even to wonder about talking to your husband about his cheating. Let him know what you know and tell him if he continues to cheat you are filing for a divorce. Take control!

Why would a married woman act like she doesn't know your husband when you know she was cheating with him?

she's scared she might not have a chance with your husband again.

If I have proof my husband has been cheating should I tell the woman's husband?

If you have absolute proof that your husband is cheating with this other woman then you should deal with your own problems with your husband first and yes, the other woman's husband should know. This is not an uncommon problem and most people (whether a husband cheats with another man's wife or a wife cheats with one of her friend's husbands) is very common and the victim of the cheating generally does tell the husband or wife that their spouse is cheating with their spouse.

How do you know am cheating on my husband?

Because you're having sexual intercourse with someone else.

What to do if your husband is cheating?


Should I tell the other womans husband she is cheating?

Definitely yes

If you husband is cheatin on you?

You haven't finish the question. If your husband is cheating on you then.......

How can to get revenge on a cheating husband without cheating?

tell him he has a small penis

How you know if your husband is cheating?

He will start leaveing home for trips to see his girl and he will start acting weird

How can you tell if your husband is cheating you with his ex?

Your husband can show various signs when he is cheating. He might be mentioning his ex in various matters.

How do you know if your husband is cheating with someone living in your home?

you will know when he is not having sex with you and when he is flirting with someone else. ANSWER: If he does, watch the way he acts when your in the room with her and your husband. If they are cheating behind your back those two will be uncomfortable looking or even talk to each others. Eye contact will be different.

Should a cheating wife confess to her lover's wife?

It depend to how long and how it started, but yes she needs to confess to this woman. Especially if this woman doesn't know what's going on. And what about the cheating wife's husband, what did he do to be betrayed by her. If the cheating wife and the cheating husband are having a wonderful time hiding their affair, do remember what goes around comes around.

Is it illegal for a wife to cheat on a deployed husband?

YES.Cheating is cheating is cheating is cheating. They could be on the MOON and it would be NO different.

How do you know that your husband is cheating on you?

Have sex with him and get drunk with him. If he says he doesn't want to do this he is definetly cheating. look at all his stuff and look for a woman's number if you find one then call it.

Is it cheating when your husband meets with a married woman to talk about his marriage and find out later she is attracted to him?

that just means that the lady is cheating on her husband to be with your husband

How many women know about their cheating husband?

ANSWER:At first I don't think we all knew that our husband is cheating on us because of the trust we gave them. But even if wives has this bad feelings we can't really tell because we don't have no clues that husband is doing something. So over all it does takes time for wives to know if we have some idea.

How do you cope with a cheating husband?

get rid of him.

To get your husband password so you can read his emails he is cheating you?

I want to get my husband password in his email so I can read about his cheating emails and divorce him.

Why do you dream that your husband is cheating on you?

Dreams you have usually come out on other people , meaning that perhaps maybe someone else's husband is cheating on them