How can you find out if your husband is cheating?

Answer 1

ANSWER The best way to find out if your husband is cheating is just to ask. If you know your husband then you will be able to tell if he is lying. Most men cheat with someone they work with, so make friends with their co-workers and they will let you know. You will hear rumors but they may not always be true. So trust your instinct! If your husband is truly cheating the the truth is you already know. Most importantly, men almost never actually love women for long periods of time. Truly, I would cheat on my husband, but I love him.

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First, you have a gut feeling, one of suspicion and mistrust. Then, you might notice changes in his behavior; in the quality of his clothing or cologne, along with protectiveness of his communication devices (computer, cell phone, etc.). You also might notice a change in his routine, and making excuses for coming home late, or needing to travel. Increased defensiveness to your inquiring questions (rather than reassuring statements and empathic, affectionate responses) becomes more likely, as well.

If you have been begging for him to help out around the house for EVER, and he suddenly wants to do all of the laundry, it could be because he doesn't want you sifting through his clothes and finding evidence.

If he's never worked an hour of overtime in his life and all of a sudden is putting in long hours - unless he just got a promotion or started a new job this could be a sign he's making time for something or someone besides you.

If he's never been concerned about his personal grooming habits or weight, and all of a sudden he wears cologne, manscapes, and joins a gym - he could be trying to be sexy for you but it's entirely possible he's trying to be sexy for someone else.

If his car used to resemble a dumpster, and suddenly it's spotlessly clean all the time - especially if he removes the child seat(s) when the kids aren't going to be around - it's might be he doesn't want you to know who has been in the car or that person to know you and your family exist.

If he never was very affectionate or surprised you with gifts for no reason - and now he's greets you with kisses and roses - he could just be making up for lost time but it's also possible he feels guilty about something.

The key to all of this is behavioral patterns. If your guy has been talking about wanting to make some changes for the better, and finally acts on it, be supportive until you have solid fact to the contrary. Don't go hiring a PI if he does one or maybe even two of these things but, just make mental notes and watch out for the biggest sign of ALL:

Sudden need for personal privacy is a HUGE clue. If he never used to behave in the following way and now: takes phone calls privately, changes and doesn't save his computer passwords, freaks out if you touch his phone or computer, and gets defensive when you ask normal things like "how was your day?" or "how come you were late?" - WATCH OUT - especially if there are other signs. It's possible he's just planning a surprise party for you, but it's also possible he's been having a party with someone else.

Answer 2

Well, you could follow him around or you could hire a private investigator. The best way to find out if he's cheating is to sit down together and talk. If you already suspect his infidelity, then there's a honesty or trust issue building. It may only get worse if you take the same sly tactics you believe he may be taking. Ony open, honest dialogue between a couple can get them back on the right path. Good luck. Most of the time, the first thing to go is his interest in sex with his partner.

Answer 3

I know this not, but let me tell you this. You don't have to take this to heart, because I am but a 12 year old, and have never even wanted to be in a relationship. I can tell you that if he is one or more of these he may not be cheating, he could be:depressed. Unsociable, loss of sex drive, being out of the house more, being in chatrooms more, being on the phone to women a lot, be hanging out with woman a lot, drinking more, being online more at night, having more arguments, staying at hotels more, or be going on numerous 'trips'. These may not mean he is cheating on you. He may feel out of your league, or having a midlife crisis. Maybe he just has female firends. Maybe he enjoys chatrooms like lots of people like football. If he starts arguments more he could be depressed. If he is on the phone a lot maybe he feel pressured by you. If you have asked him about cheating, and he truthfully hasn't been it may be the end of youre marriage. perhaps you should pay for a lie detector, but that can be disastrous as well as miraculous. Being badgered about cheating can put a lot more stress that imaginable on people, especially men. This causes the to spend more time doing some of the listed activities, casuing of vicous cycle of mistrust and depression. If you truly love him than perhaps you should just put your head down, and bear the mistrust. Things to look out for if he is cheating are actually: Flirting with other women frequently, but a little doesn't mean anything, so let him play around a bit but reign him in if it gets too 'hot'. He may also accidently say anothers name during intercourse, but this could be the name of a recent ex. Also watch out for the big one:If you both accuse each other of cheating than one of you is almost certainly cheating. The problem is, many women seem to become paranoid about cheating if they are having an affair.

Answer 4

You Know When Your Bf Cheating On you When Your Txting For A Whole Day And Then Suddenly Stops Txting You,And You Notcies He Don't Let You Check His Phone Like he Use Too!When He Dnt Call You Untill Real Late At Night And Uses An Exuse of Ohh I Was Bussiee!!This Are The Ways To Notcie When Your Boyfreinds Cheatting On Youu!!But Then Again There Could Be Diffrent Ways To Notice This Are Just Some of Themm:)

Answer 5

You could always just be straight forward and ask him. If you are positive of the fact and have a good idea of how it is going on then you could spend the money on a private detective to gather difinitive evidence on the matter. If you belong to a church you might want to go talk with your chaplain.

Answer 6

if he seems secretive, doesn't (or refuses) explain why he leaves or is late to come home, and doesn't seem very affectionate towards you i would be very suspicious. It would be a good idea to talk to him about it as soon as possible just so he knows you are concerned and, if he is cheating, that you aren't as stupid as he thinks you are.

He seems preoccupied all the time, and he is evidently happy, or never bothered by anything.

Answer 7

Yes.

It is both possible (i.e. is there a mechanism or mechanisms by which a person may find out that their husband is cheating on you) and permissible (i.e. you are allowed to try to discover whether or not your husband is cheating on you.)

Answer 8

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Answer 9

What if you could use your check all calls and texts made from your husbands mobile without them knowing. What if you could see the camera on their phone to see where they are.

Answer 10

there could be lots of signs if he or she is cheating like having private calls, working late hours , does he not want to mess with you, he or she has started dressing better or nicer.