think about it does he still care for you lik he used to do he ever show it if not no sorry = Affection.
Yes. No good can come from lying. He has the right to know. Any negative consequence that comes after you tell him is the result of your infidelity, not of your having confessed it.
when he does not care about you or he is with another women or guy.
He comes home.
no what this is is you jumped into a relationship (both of you) while neither of you were anywhere near the stable people you need to be. anger issues, infidelity, your messed up passed (or his for that matter) are things that need to be dealt with alone. you have to take care of yourself before you can take care of others. and yes, this is most likely a cycle from your crappy and complicated childhood. why? because its all you have seen. you dont know how to have a normal relationship, and i am going to go out on a limb and say you most likely never have. i suggest you withdraw from your crappy husband, get some therapy for your issues, and start over.
If he cares and you care.... what's keeping you from calling him?....
I think you'll know if someone loves you. If your husband doesnt contact you or anything, it means he wants to forget you. Therefore you will never know if he still loves you. If he is trying to forget you, you should do the same.
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If he comes talking to you. If he still shows interest and care and love.
The only way to tell if a husband loves his wife after 25 years is through his actions. If the husband still cares for the wife, buys her present and always wants to be in company of the wife they he still loves the wife.
E-mail her back and tell her you know about her and your husband and you're going to take care of him just like you're about to take care of her. Tell her to stop e-mailing your husband and find her own man.
If you need to ask that question, you probably don't.