This is truly a tough question. It's great having a good male friend, but somewhere along the line (as we mature) usually that friend begins to look better and better to us, because actually, what is happening is you both have the qualities that make for a good marriage. Friends first, lovers 2nd. I've had a few great male friends, but one in particular "Skip" was a person I could "just be me" with and tell him anything. All inhibitions were put aside on both parties. We went out together and had the time of our lives (thinking we were both just good old buddies) but he started to care for me on a romantic level and I unfortunately, just didn't feel that chemistry between us. It almost cost us our friendship. Luckily it didn't and I am still very close friends to him and his wife since 1968. Your best guy friend obviously likes you, but the question you are really asking is .. have things changed and does he love me (perhaps you love him too.) It's worth the risk to have an honest talk with him and tell him as casually as you can (no pressure) that you feel more for him than you use too and how about trying to go out on a real date. See what he has to say to that. If he says he just wants to remains friends, then do so, and don't risk a great friendship because of your/his feelings. There is always that percentage that says he may feel the same way about you and is too shy or too afraid to ruin your friendship my mentioning it and being friends is better than not seeing each other at all. Good luck Marcy
you KNOW when your best friend likes you when: he wants to be alone with you more often. he touches you more then normal. he goes above and beyond for you. he treats you better then your other friends. he looks into your eyes differently... tough question
You can tell if your best guy friend has feelings for you if he starts getting mad or upset that your hangingout with other guys, or if he starts acting diffrent and flirty around you when its just you and him hangingout, trust me this has happend to me before.
1.when you're sitting next to him if his shoes point towards you
2.if his eyes dialate while talking to you
3.if he often starts to say something but quickly cuts it off, studdering
4.if he treats you with more respect than most others.
5.if his friends ive him a weird look when you walk in the room...
there are various things that could show signs but wait when the time is right he will come to you
Ask him if he likes you and if he studers tell him you like him
if he acts mean to your friends but nice to you he might like you also watch him closely,,, does he stare at you alot and want to spend alot of time with you
You ask him.
Tell him, "If I had feelings for him, I'd be his girlfriend.
Explain to your friend the situation if she/he understands you know how good a friend they are, if they are a good friend be sure that they will take your feelings into consideration. xxx Explain to your friend the situation if she/he understands you know how good a friend they are, if they are a good friend be sure that they will take your feelings into consideration. xxx
usually if a guy kisses a girl that means that they have feelings for that girl
Apoligize.
Don't allow a guy to come between you and your friend. You cannot control anothers feelings or where they direct them. Be happy for them is anything becomes of them and move on - there is a guy that would love your attention and could return your feelings.
You can't be 100% sure unless your best friend directly tells you. Never assume anything and don't believe everything you hear. Also, trust your best friend. She should respect your feelings for this guy if you just tell her.
You be as supportive as possible. If the relationship ends, then confess your feelings towards the boy.
so what if your best friend is a guy i dosent mean you like him. i used to have a best friend that was a guy and people said we liked each other but we didnt. but nowadays my best friend is a girl
he doesnt know if he loves u, or likez u as a friend.
well it depends if you haven't told her then its ok because she didn't know but if u did and she still went out with him then u should talk to her about it but don't ignore her it just makes it worse.
Woman's intuition. Actually, talk to the guy or have your friend guy talk to him for you.
it usally means that he has feelings for you and wants to know what you see in a guy so he can be that guy or hes just worried for you