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Remind yourself that HE'S MARRIED!!! You shouldn't have gone there anyway. Married men will never leave their wives for a mistress. You just found that out the hard way.
Quite simple, all you have to do is stop the affair. Just think of the people that you're hurting, and maybe kids too.
If you say that that the two of you love each others, then ask your married lover to divorce his wife so the two of you can have life together. His wife didn't deserve the pain that his giving her and your helping him as well. The man that I married, it was me who discovered their love affairs, yes hell broke loose and lies keeps coming with this "He says, She says." My husband said that he was planning to break up with her only waiting for the right time to tell her so she wouldn't get hurt, Ditto!! He was also waiting for the right time to tell me that he was having an affair with this married woman he met on dating site...duh! so I made every ones life and problem easier, I told my husband he needs to move out and be with her, and I don't want to see him anymore. This is a man that supposed to love me till death do us part?...planning how to stop his affair?...wow! faith has his own role, I discovered it. So if he didn't wait to break up with her, maybe I will forgive him but I will still divorce him, but he made his bed so he needs to lay on it to.
Tell him to leave you alone and if he still doesn't tell him you will go to his wife - if he becomes overbearing you must go to the police.
Leave him alone And find you a different person
I think that you should leave that guy & think about someone else . Come on there are many cute guys in this world
"How do you get back with your ex-boyfriend back in your love life even though he is married now? You don't. You leave him alone - he's a married man.
You can make the man divorce his wife so that he is no longer "married". No there is no easy way to leave. But why stay around, he's a cheater who probably has already started moving in on your replacement. Pity his wife instead.
This is possibly true. Some do but realize they're getting nowhere. ANSWER: It depends on each individual, there are some married woman who leaves her family to be with the other man. But there are some that don't because she knows having affairs with a married man will not give her some leverage, unless the married man fell in love with her.
The issue is not being in love with a married man, we all have fantasies and desires. The issue is ACTING or your thoughts and your love for the married Man. Even if his wife was not disabled it is still wrong to have relations with a committed man.
Forget it!
im in love with a married man he told me he is going to leave her when he has got her rehoused in a council house he knows i love him and he said he cant do any thing until has got every thing sorted and he said he dosent want her to know about us and i don't know what to do can can i have some advice from some one about this
Leave your husbands, You do NOT love him! Never tell him why you have left, spaire him this embarrassment. Divorce and say zero! He does not want to know that he has failed as a man! You women do not understand what this means to a man! Leave him! Leave him with his dignity, do not stay and live a lie. JUST LEAVE!
No. If he loved you he would leave his wife. Now he might be infatuated but only wants you as his mistress. Tell him he can call you after the divorce.
You have a reality check -- realize that by dating this man, he is committing adultery, punishable by law, and that he will most likely not leave his wife for you. Best advice, leave that volatile situation, you'll both eventually carry on.
Think of it this way if he is willing to leave his wife for you, then he might be willing to leave you for another woman