If you honestly feel as though you won't love him the same or trust him again, leave. It is difficult, but it will be a lot easier on you with the passing of time. Because he cheated, every time he goes out, you'll be thinking about it & with every phone call he receives, you'll be wondering who it is & if they're someone he's cheating with. If you think you can move forward & remain together, you two need to talk - COMMUNICATE & maybe get some counseling.
It can change it forever if you let it. People make mistakes. If you're a mature, smart, decent enough, or somewhere along those lines of a person you usually know it was a mistake. Unfortunately that's not the case so often these days because divorce and other things are so much more widely accepted and we feel it's our right to be happy when marriage is going to have its ups and downs which we mistake for anything but the norm for any union and feel as though it's ok to give in to whomever the devil sends out way. My honest opinion is to consult the Lord or a Christain based counselor bc marriage is the union of 3 like the holy Trinity and the couple that prays together stays together. Whatever, it sounds cliche but it's a fact Jack. If you decide to forgive him do just that. If he does it again maybe he'll get it out of his system. If not, it's your call. Love is longsuffering. I don't just talk out the side of my head either. My husband got involved with a dark woman and i don't mean skintone. There was a brief moment in time when I know he was thinking of ways to kill me. Fortunately he's not a killer, and her spell couldn't outdo my faith in God. The devil hates marriage. Don't let him take what GOD gave you. I hope it goes great and strengthens your marriage instead.
i believe personally you don't. It changes the marriage forever.
you can try going on a date. remind him/her why they liked you.
Spending more time together is the solution. It can make your relation work longer without cheating.
After cheating, it is very difficult to gain the trust. You can do that by talking to her more often.
this sounds like cheating, but you can't just assume he is. ask him about the smudges, you should probably be able to tell if he's lying. If you find out his cheating, you need to get out of the relationship. you deserve better
If you really want to be with the mistress, you have to get everything in order, sit down with the wife and explain that it's not working..... then work on the relationship with the mistress and make her your girlfriend.
That isn't the correct way to deal with a cheating partner. If you know your partner is cheating, and if you still want to make it work than you should probably separate for a for a while, but inform your partner that you still want this relationship to grow. Also you should ask the cheating partner is they want to make something out of the relationship. That is my best advice. Or see a therapist.
As they were cheats right from the start, this relation will not last long.
You both can try and make it work. If he is too far into cheating, you cannot do much but leave him.
No. It has to be cheating because mostly every girl has a boyfriend. So as you probably all know two girls in a relationship is called lesbians.
yes he is cheating on you
If you're with somebody and you meet with someone else that is single, then yes it is cheating. If you're not with somebody and your single and meeting with someone that is also single then no your not cheating. If you are single and the person your meeting is in a relationship then yes that to is cheating.
If your husband admitted to you openly and without you trying to get the information he is cheating then he's being honest with you. He feels guilty, but what you have to find out is why does he feel like cheating and does he want to stay in a relationship with you. Any relationship an individual enters into be a friendship or love takes work; honesty, trust and loyalty, but humans can make mistakes. If your husband has never cheated before and been man enough to admit to his mistake he is worth another chance.
"long distance"?! I'm a dude he's probably cheating on you