How can you tell him you want to be more than friends you want sex?

Answer 1

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If you really like this guy and want sex with him, and can't figure out how to tell him that, not to worry I have your answer. If you live alone, or he has his own place go there dressed as usual, but bring along something super sexy in your purse. When he's sitting in front of the television, go to the bathroom, take your regualar clothes off and put your sexy thing on. Walk out of the bathroom and stand in front of him. Ask him how he likes what you are wearing, bet he answers you with a big hug and kiss and probably much more. Good luck and keep it safe.

Answer 2

This is in no way a reflection on you, but you have to show him that you are worth more than just sex. Show him that you can provide more than just a physical relationship. If he fails to see this, then he is not worth keeping.

Answer 3

Find a time when the two of you can be alone, without interruption. Then start of slowly, kissing him on the lips, run your hands through his hair etc. If he wants to, let him feel you (but obviously, ask him to stop if you become uncomfortable). Eventually, he will find it hard to resist.

Answer 4

Answer 1:

A way to get a guy to like you for more that just sex is by showing how much you love him.

Answer 2:

By not providing the sex very quickly.

This may sound wildly old fashioned, but there used to be a thing called "courting", in which the man spent months trying to impress the girl with his charm, kindness, generosity and willingness to dote on her.

He would bring her gifts and flowers. He would take her to dinner and to dances. He would visit with her and her family. He would strive to prove that he was a good worker. He would strive to prove that he would be there for the girl for the whole of her life.

If he managed to prove all that, then after six months or so, he would ask her to marry him. Then they'd have an engagement, usually for up to a year. Why? So they could get to know each other all the more, and learn all the ways of wanting and desiring the other, none of which had to do with sex. (Some kissing and petting, but nothing involving either climaxing)

The long engagement was also to give the man time to save up enough money for a nice house for the girl, and to have savings for the first child they would later have.

Then, finally, the marriage - between a man and woman who had done nothing but get to know and love each other for a year and a half or so.

Then, and only then, the night of the wedding - sex. Which you may well believe was fabulous, for each of them having waited so long, and treating it as so special, and knowing and loving each other with all of their hearts.

I'm guessing that regardless as to how old fashioned that all sounds, that it's better than what happens so often nowadays. Like when the woman has sex with the guy after the first McDonalds and a movie date, then watches him run off right afterward to hang out with his friends, and call her only when he needs some more "loving" next week.

Always remember what Thomas Paine said, "What we obtain to cheaply, we esteem to lightly." In this context, that means if the guy gets sex too easily, he won't value the girl giving it.