There are products sold at Walgreen's to fade skin dicolorations. It does this by lightening almost like bleaching your skin. I have porcelana and it works great.
make up
yellow makes pale skin look lighter. white, however, tends to look better because it shows up your color and doesnt make you look washed out.
With skin bleach.
Avoid dark colours as they make your skin appear paler, pale pinks and pastel colours such as blues and purples will suit your skin well as they make your skin look more peachy. I have pale skin and brown hair and for my prom I wore a light grey/purple dress with silver detail.
Cornflour.
Yes, but it will make you look really pale. Try a nice red with freckles. I have freckles and red works well with my skin tones.
Yes
Depending on how pale ones skin is would determine the color clothes that would look best on that specific skin type. Neon colors, such as oranges and pinks, usually look better on tan skin. So one with pale skin could go for more neutral colors or browns to look the best.
Yes, men can have pale white pure skin like women. TOO dark would be really disgusting and can lead to skin disease!!
Blonde highlights look good with dark hair on pale skin and many people with dark hair use them.
I have extremely pale skin and the foundation I use is l'oreal Paris true match. It's got a very slight pinky tone and also yellowy tone to hide redness. Which in my opion is perfect for pale skin. For makeup I use baby pink blush, brown eye pencil on my top lash line and light brown eye shadow both from MAC
Coconut oil does not make your skin pale, it is actually useful for tanning