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Your spouce isn't a dog and can't be forced t listen. However you have another method of recourse. Whatever it is that you want to say can be written down, don't point fingers, be sure to express how much you love this person and ask them to write back to you. That way no one's feelings get hurt by words from the head instead of writings from the heart.

Several ways

1. Bribery- Tell your spouse you'll give him/her something enjoyable in exchange. Incentives work, sometimes.

2. The next time your spouse brings up a problem with you, make a deal. Lovingly tell him/her that you will improve if he/she will agree to improve in the area you need them to.

3. If they bring up an instance that someone else does that bothers them and they do the same thing, tell them.

4. Play the "someone else" game. Bring up the problem as if someone else is doing it, then ask your spouse for his/her opinion. If he/she feels negatively, then reveal that he/she is the one with the very troubling behavior.

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