You can't really be sure. Think about the situation from all angles. Inside and out. Think until you can't think any more because that's the only thing you can do. The answers are there, just keep your feelings a separate entity from the situation entirely.
If they love you then they would do anything for you and if they didn't but they used you then they would push you aside. The way to tell if they really like you is if they have respect for your wishes and they won't mind if you want to 'wait'.
But whatever you feel is not connected to what they feel.
Sometimes you love someone, sometimes someone loves you. And SOMETIMES, the one you love is also the one that loves you.
If someone really likes youIf someone really likes youYou can test it out. Try talking about something deep, like your plans and goals for the future. If he seems interested in the conversation, you know he's in love. If he seemed 'distracted' or uncaring, then he's just using you.
The person should not want you just for your body, money, or anything that's out in the world, if he really likes you then he/she would start to hang around you or smile sometimes even be pretty shy.
Every couple gets in fights and they make sarcastic remarks, but it's usually pretty easy to know the difference. Just follow your heart and do what feels right.
Here are some tips
Love is a very big word to use now, especially these days, but when you think a guy or a lady likes you, here are some tips for all of us.
Another simple way to tell
Here's another simple way to tell if a girl really does like you or if she's just using you. If a girl wants to spend time with you and doesn't care about anything else, she wants you. When she wants to spend time with you and wants you to buy everything for her and drags you along to wherever she wants, she's using you. If she hangs around her friends and laughs or giggles whenever you come near, she's using you. It's that simple. If you still have doubts about this person, then it's not a good relationship anyway. Don't be afraid of breaking up, it's part of growing up and becoming more mature. It won't be a mistake. Keep your head up. There's always another fish in the sea.
Try to get on with it
There are a number of questions that can be raised if alarm bells ring when a person one has started dating or seeing begins to 'not turn up' for a date or just plain cancel, on a regular basis. One offs are ok, as long as there is communication. Is there is a lack of respect with regard to their communication or rather, the lack of?
If things had started well and then one of you stops communicating, the reason may not always be that the person has decided they have had their 'needs' fulfilled and have used you. If the person who feels abandoned starts to fret and call, text and trouble the other, this may cause them to flee and be even more distant. Try to get on with your own enjoyment, this may well be a chance for you to take up a new hobby or pursue an adventure which may well help you to realize that you may have come across as quite 'needy'. This, in my experience, never helps when the other person has become emotionally distant.
I read that in particular, a man who is having feelings towards someone, they will disappear for a while, to have space and to think. This is known as 'Going into his cave'. Men seem to have a need for space to reflect on his feelings. When a man has had this space, without interruption, he is ready to show he has feelings and the cycle will go on. A woman seems to need the security of their partner being 'on tap' with response and communication.
A person whom you are in a relationship with, if they have feelings for you, wouldn't think twice to let you know what is going on in the relationship. They want to be with their choice of partner and would, in the beginning stages of a fresh relationship, spend quite a bit of time getting to know that person.
A person who decides to abuse the trust, by making the relationship into more of a convenience for them, is using the other person. If someone doesn't enter a new relationship with pure intention, the alarm bells will start to ring.
Try to keep your self-worth intact with regards to relationships, if they start to unwind.
Im a guy; soo I know about being used.
You know if you are being used if you are only asked for help on homework for the only interaction with a girl.
If that's the only thing she talks about with u then you are probably being used.
Also, if she only wants to spend time with u in a mall with money to spend on her.
If you get her an expensive gift, and she doesnt give you anything
If you ask her if she wants to hang out with u, and she says she already has plans
if she talks to other guys and flirts with them more than you
if she has a boyfriend
These are a couple of situations that you are probably being used
Depends on how frequently they ask you for money or ask you for something. If they ask alot, probably because of your money. But if they dont ask a lot then they probably really do like you.
Straight up ask him.
There's no other waay you'll know.
A player needs fast balls.
if you suspect they are using you, they probably are using you.
Maybe, but he probably just likes her better Probably is trying to make you jealous. To make you want him! And he could just not want to show that he likes you. OR maybe because he knows that you know he likes you, and he's embarrased.
There is no way to definitively tell that a guy is playing you or if he actually likes you. You would need to catch him in the act, but if you have any lingering suspicions then it's best to end the relationship before anything gets out of hand or you become possessive.
It means that he's a player or he's trying to make you jealous. But probably he's a player... truth hurts...sorry to tell you that but then again maybe he's just trying to make you jealous.
then it possible that he likes you, or just trying to find someone, but more likely he likes you.
there could be a lot of reasons, like she might be stuck up or she knows nobody likes her around so she might be trying raise her self-esteem and she might just be trying to cheer herself up
He may be trying to hide the fact that he likes you too, or just doesn't like you; either way, try to talk to him about and see what he actually thinks.
There is numerous answers to this question.He is a good listener.He is interested in you.He likes your eyes.Or he is actually just paying attention.
it means he likes u i would know i am a boy
it could possibly mean he likes you, he's just trying to find out who you like for his friend or he just want to know, etc
Sometimes boys r just trying to get ur attention when they flirt with other girls or try to be hotshots when they say "Oh I kissed a girl outside my family" : / they r just trying to impress you but dont get to cockie. sometimes they actually like the other girl. If he likes you he will tell u have pretty hair or act stupid around u or something like that!!!!! Like a couple days ago the boy that likes me sat on my arm "accidentally" if he does that than u no he likes you.
It is possible that she likes you, but she also may just be a nice person. The best way to find out if she likes you is to be her friend.
If you have to ask the question you are probably being used. If you are not convinced that he actually likes you, what are you doing with him at all?