When He doesn't spend enough time with you. When he doesn't discuss a lot with you. When he doesn't have sex with you regularly.
it really matters how he did it. just talk to him tell him all your feeling you have for him and then ask if he likes you
who is who
I don't have a husband. But i can say if he's acting a little wierd around you, there's something going on.
If his eyes light up when he sees her and just has to go talk to her.
just straight up tell him that that is what you think and back it up with a threat, like you might move out if he keeps it up
No. not unless you tell him to stop and he keeps putting it there then it might just be harassment but if he moves it up your leg and you tell him to stop but he doesn't then it may count as sexual harassment.
If you think there is any truth to this, you need to confront him. If you think your in-laws are just stirring up trouble, then ignore them.
I just wanted to see if Ireland puts up a tree
Tell him to loosen up that wrist. If he cares about you, he'll try and fix things. Otherwise, you're wasting your years on him.
coz he'll do her up the bum
I presume you either mean he is fooling around with her and you'd noticed them changing, or it is her who is changing trying to take him from you. Either way, I suggest you bring the topic up with your husband, just don't accuse him of anything. Just ask. And I know your question was "How can you tell", but I don't fully understand your situation enough to help you anymore than just mentioning to him.
call him out on it and tell him to stop, or tell your husband to do something.