How do you tell my wife that I want to wear a bra?

Answer 1

Ask her to wear one.

Buy her some from an online lingerie store or offline lingerie store. Online lingerie stores are better so that you would not get embarrassed. The shop assistants may think you are buying for yourself as some kinky trip of some kind. If she is not really into sexy or naughty lingerie then you could also have it posted to your address from the online lingerie retailer and when it arrives rip the return address label off and say,

"It doesn't have a return address, I'll check with the post office".

Make sure you leave the package open on the dining room table so that your wife can see the contents, phone her from work if she is at home and say that,

"we cannot return it without a record of a return address". "The post office says that the company will be insured for the loss2".

Then mention to her that she may as well keep it. Before you get home she may have tried it on, she may surprise you by wearing it and greeting you at the door. If your wife is a little bit more stubborn you can either plead with her to wear it for you for some birthday sex and she may get used to it or during foreplay remind her that she still has that costume or sexy lingerie hidden away. During foreplay you have an advantage over her that at that very moment before intercourse she will willingly do many things because the heat has been turned up. So, wearing something a little bit sexy, raunchy or revealing is the lesser of two evils. Once she gets into wearing sexy lingerie or fantasy costume wear the thrill takes over and she will begin enjoying wearing some special outfits for you. The women that don't wear sexy lingerie and only wear their everyday underwear may have some sexual hangups that they are not aware exist, the may still think, "just lay back and think of England" but at the end of the day, these sexual hangups can be eased after time and if she has hangups of any kind related to sexual behavior, you can be sure that by wearing some sexy items she will hangup her hangups and become the full woman that loves to fulfill her partner and be fulfilled by him.