Be straight and forward with them. You need to say "I think you are a nice person and I like your company, but I am married and do not want an relationship beyond friendship." If they cannot promise that, do not see them anymore. Just like you phrased it in your question. Be direct, be kind and be polite.
tell them that your not in the place of your life to get married yet and that your not wanting to destroy your friendship because it means a lot to you
People can be friends if they share common interests and enjoy each other's company, married or not. If she wants to be your friend she will. Age or marital status shouldn't matter.
raise your friendship level to 100% and then propose
You court her friendship, then her love, and then you ask.
probably because they don't feel like their wife is satisfying them anymore or they just lost interest
No. Hephaestus married Aphrodite, who cheated on him with Mars because Mars owns a candy company and Aphrodite digs chocolate.
I'm so sorry, but I think you need to try to move on. Its in her and your best interest because if in this point in your friendship or whatever you have you confessed your love and she doesn't recipricate, your friendship is most likely over. So even though its going to seem like no one is going to compare to her, you'll find someone else. Start looking soon instead of being depressed over this. good luck
This is all depends on individual and not all married women do get involve with the man they work with. Most of the time woman who works with big company, it will be different for them, married woman who get involve with co workers are likely for friendship or just someone to talk to. But there are woman who do get involve with man she work with because of she is mostly one of the head of a big company.
Yes, friendship is always important.
It depends on the insurance company, but I personally have never known of a company that would allow a parent to continue to carry insurance on a child after that child married, because at that point, you are no longer a 'dependant' of your parents.
Because the men she knows are ash holes?
Hermione never really "loved" Viktor in that way, even though he fancied her. For a short while, sure, she had an interest with him, but it never really developed into anything other than a friendship that holds them through to adulthood.