How do you tell what a guy's actions towards a girl mean?

Answer 1

Obviously, when a guy likes you, he treats you differently. Every guy is different, so when one guy likes you, he may act differently than another guy who likes you. The ones who are shy tend to look at you secretively. When you make eye contact he looks away. Some guys are more outgoing. These boys will talk to you, treat you with respect, make you laugh, and even be a little bit flirtatious. Some guys are in the middle. He might be the most outgoing person in the world. You know that type, right? Hyper, funny, kind, good to everyone, the works. However, he might not be so talkative around you. Now, there is a difference between ignoring you and being "less outgoing" with you, shall we call it? Ignoring you? He doesn't talk to you or give you the time of day. You talk to him, and his replies are curt, (short and brief.) When he is less outgoing, he still gives you short replies, but he pays attention to you. If he is ignoring you, he looks away right after you talk without replying and tries to get out of the conversation. Also, if he is less outgoing, it is probably because he is so nervous to talk to you. He is probably scared to talk too much because he thinks he might say the wrong thing. So, guide him through it. If he does say or do something stupid, simply laugh! Don't laugh at him, laugh with him, and make sure he knows the difference! - This is if maybe you go to school together, but you've never really talked before. Look for behavioral changes. If he starts to pay more attention to you, he probably likes you. He might be shy, so help him along. If you catch him looking at you, don't let him look away with nothing in return. Smile! He might get more confident, and the signals may grow stronger. If they don't, don't give up. Also, if he smiles back, that's probably just friendly. If he smiles back, but doesn't look you in the eyes when he does, that's probably a little more. If he doesn't do anything but look away, he's probably just shy, so don't worry about it. Also, don't expect him to look at you again for a while. He'll think that you catching him means the worst of it. Just go easy on him, okay?

This is if you have known each other, and I mean have really known each other. I am a girl. I have a twin brother, and his best friends are my best friends. Mine are his, and they are his best friends' best friends, too. See? It goes in every direction. So, I know what it's like to be just friends with someone. - If you have been friends with someone, especially for a very long time, they won't change at all. The only way you'll know is by either making it look like you like him in that way, or act like you really like "this guy." The "this guy" technique is probably always the best in every situation. If you've known him forever, know of him, or have just met him, this is always good. This will help you uncover clues to whether or not he likes you, and if he doesn't already like you, it might make him start liking you out of jealousy. You might think this isn't the best: he only likes you because he doesn't want you with someone else. No, jealousy is more than being selfish for both boys and girls. When you envy someone being with somebody else that isn't you, it means feelings are being uncovered. It's not that you never had them, but that you didn't notice them yet. So, when a friend gets jealous of you, he will tell you bad things about the person, tell you to 'be careful' even though there might be nothing to look out for with that person. He might give misleading advice or try to convince you that the way "that guy" acts towards you means he doesn't like you. BTW, when using this technique, I suggest you use a guy that doesn't exactly like you. You don't want to grow too close to "that guy" because then, technically, you're using him. That's just not morally right. If he and the other guy find out, it will ruin it for all of you, and it will destroy your reputation, possibly ruining it for you with anyone.

When showing signs you like him yourself, be careful. You don't want him to feel like you're pursuing him. I'm sorry, boys, but when it comes to girls, you guys are wimps, whether it be asking us out, telling us ya like us, or even showing signs that you do! Also, just like you don't want to overdo it, you don't want to under-do it. If you get closer, but not close enough, there is a very good chance that they will find out what you're trying to do. This could be good or bad. It could be good because if they do like you, they'll finally admit it. It could be bad because if he doesn't like you it could make things awkward for a while. If you actually did like him "back" and you weren't pretending, it could make things socially awkward forever. We don't want that now do we?

If you had something, but not anymore, it's difficult. However, it's not impossible. This isn't if you were dating, you broke up, and now you suspect him of liking you again. No, if it were that, they would openly tell you. It will take a while because they might have to get over the breakup. Otherwise, they know what you're like and they know what to expect, therefor, they will know how to word it and how to act. This is if you were just friends. - Let me guess, you like him, he found out, and it made things awkward. He never told you whether or not he liked you back or not, and what used to be a healthy friendship is fading. This occurs more often when you don't go to school together. I know this, and I speak based off of experience. I am actually going through this right now. You used to talk all the time, but now you haven't talked in a while. You see him occasionally at social outings, like your schools have dances together, you go to an open house on the same day, or you take a state test together. Maybe you even see him at the mall or walking into the tutors when you're about to walk into the store right next door. Whatever the occasion may be, he is not going to talk to you unless you talk to him. If he does talk to you first, then this piece of information isn't for you. Obviously, if he talks to you first, things were never awkward, meaning he's cool with you liking him no matter what his feelings may be. If it was a bit awkward for him, he probably won't talk to you. He could be an extremely outgoing person, but if it's been a while, he won't make an effort to act like he knows you. However, he will try to draw your attention to him without physically talking to you. At social outings, he will get closer to you. He won't even smile. He will just stand there and draw your attention to him. He will pretend like he doesn't notice you. He will look at you, and when you two make eye contact, he'll look away. He doesn't talk to you, and it seems as if it's over. DON'T TRUST HIM! Or, I should say, don't trust his behavior. These are misleading signs, though he doesn't know it. He thinks this is dragging your attention, but it's just pushing you away because you may feel like he is ignoring you. In some ways, you are wrong. You're right: he is ignoring you, but not for the purpose you think! He is trying to draw attention to himself. He might get a girlfriend. He might never talk to you. He might always flutter his eyes away when you make eye contact. However, this is where you ask yourself why. Why did he dance with that girl? At first, he probably danced with her, but he kept a distance from you. However, you caught him staring at you the entire time. Right? If so, it was most likely he wanted you to notice him with someone else. He wanted to spark your jealousy, trust me. If not far, he danced right in front of you. In this case, he most likely had his back to you. Am I correct? Why did he do it? He knows you liked him. If he triggers jealousy, you might snap, even at your closest friends. If you're not the jealous type, his plan still prevails. Whether you're not the envious type or not, I hate to burst your bubble, but you will get upset. This happened to me. I'm not the type to get jealous and act covetously. Instead, I cried. He seriously put me in tears. He thinks by having his back to you and dancing with someone right in front of you, he will make you realize that you're not over him. Also, with his back to you, there's no guilt. If he does make you cry, he won't know if he can't see you. This way, he won't feel bad for you and give in.

Why doesn't he keep in touch like he said? Most guys who like you keep their word because they want your trust. This is different. Why did he do it? He knows you have a history of being good friends. He wants you to feel alone or abandoned. He wants you to need a shoulder to cry on. He wants you to come back to him. Begging for a guy's attention is proof that you haven't moved on. If you just started liking him, and you're begging for his attention, it's no longer begging. It's pursuing, which again, like I said earlier, is not good. Boys are scaredy-cat. They'll run away from us if they feel like they have to. Begging, is like what I just described. He thinks that without proof, there is no chance in trying. He might feel like he shouldn't even bother, but he does. What does that tell you, ay?

Why does he look away after you look him in the eyes? He doesn't smile. He doesn't maintain eye contact. He doesn't talk, nod, or start a conversation. He doesn't blink when he looks away, hinting that he doesn't even care. Blinking sometimes looks innocent or weak. When you are watching someone's feelings get crushed or watching them get hurt, pay attention to what you do. Most people tend to blink and look down because they can't bare to watch someone in so much pain, whether it be physical or mental. He will just looks away with a grim look on his face. He doesn't care. Right? No, wrong. You are incorrect, my friend! Why did he make eye contact with you in the first place? Think about it that way. He will pretend as if he was just looking around and then it just so happens he skimmed your eyes? Coincidence? I don't think so. When he knows you're watching him, he turns his head on you to make you feel like he is giving you the cold shoulder, correct? Why did he do it? He knows you're paying attention to him by doing this. Looking away goes back to the ignoring you technique. However, the eye contact is to make sure you don't completely leave him forever. In reality, he is ignoring you. In truth, he wants you to notice him. I know, guys are confusing. Looking you in the eyes assures him that you know who he is and that you notice him. Looking him in the eyes, whether you like it or not, is recognition, even if it only lasts a second or two. You will most likely never maintain eye contact for more than three seconds. You're lucky if you do, and if you do, again, this probably isn't the situation you're in. Just always think to yourself, why did he make eye contact with me if he was trying to ignore me in the first place? If he knew I was looking at him, why did he look at me if he was so uptight and ignorant about not talking to me anymore? For example, maybe he sits across from you at a lunch table, but he doesn't talk to you. He dances with that girl right in front of you. He doesn't ever call or text you, but he will talk to you if you say hi first. This is probably what he's going for, so don't move on so quickly. Also, don't point out that you know what he is doing if you think this matches the way he acts. If he is doing this sort of thing, it will make him feel like he failed, and he will back off. That's just awkward anyway. It may not be what he's doing as well. If it's not, that will just scare him, and he'll be utterly confused. Boys can be stupid, too, even though based off of all this they seem pretty clever.

Just like you should be careful about jumping into a relationship, you should be careful about jumping out of one, too. Because though it may seem like it, it's not always over for him. In fact, you're probably more close to moving on than he is!

Other signs may include that he suddenly maintains a friendship with a brother or even a sister if you have any. If you have a brother and a sister, he will most likely pick the brother. If he picks your sister over your brother, he probably likes her unless he is staying in the friend zone. If he is just friendly with your sister, it's probably because he thinks, being girls, you two tell each other everything, and he could possibly squeeze some information out of her. This is all based off whether or not you have siblings. Another sign is he looks at you in a large crowd. I.E., like in that situation I mentioned at a dance. Especially if he's dancing with a girl, he'll look at you intently. Remember, if he keeps his head tilted down and looks up at you with just his eyes, this is his "animal instincts" coming out. We humans are animals, you know? This is probably alpha male showing. This probably isn't known by him or anyone for that matter. It's just his natural instinct to hide. He doesn't want to be noticed watching you, so he keeps his head down. It's just natural. If he keeps his head up, do something about it! He is really trying, don't just leave him hanging on a limb over there, go and talk to him. (Wait until he's done dancing first, though, or things could get ugly not with him, but with the girl he's dancing with.) Also, if he treats or treated you with respect. He will listen to you if he's into you for you and who you are, not what you are. Boys also do really stupid things, hence the ignorance examples. They tend to get really clumsy around girls. Alpha male my butt! They aren't always dominant, and they want the girl they like to know that. By being clumsy, it proves you are somewhat in control because how can he do anything by tripping over chairs and hitting his head on flag poles? That, and he is just so distracted by you that he has no mental control over what he is doing.

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Answer 2

Pay attention to consistency and intention in his actions. If he makes an effort to spend time with her, shows genuine interest in her well-being, and treats her with respect, it's likely he has feelings for her. It's important to communicate openly and honestly to understand his intentions clearly.