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How do you tell your best friend who is a lesbian and you are not but she asked you out and she means a lot to me and I don not want to lose her as a friend?
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∙ 14y ago
- Honesty is the best policy. Be sure she knows that you accept the fact she is lesbian and she must know you are straight. She may be simply asking you out unless she made suggestions she was actually asking you out on a date. You are going to have to risk telling her that you enjoy being straight and think highly of her as a friend and it's up to you friend whether she accepts your decision and stays friends with you. If she doesn't stay friends with you then she was never a friend to you in the first place.
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Does it mean your best friend is a lesbian if she touches you between the legs and breasts always accidently?
if your best friend touches you sexually and she is also a lesbian than that means she is having sexual feelings towards you...
How you know if you best friend is a lesbian?
Ask her.
How do you tell if your best friend is a lesbian?
Ask her
How can I seduce my best friend into lesbian?
toke to your freind
What do you do if you think your best friend is a lesbian?
As long as your friend has just been a good friend to you and has not tried to entice you into a lesbian relationship then her sexual preference should not stop you from being friends. Being best friends means you stand up for each other so if you are afraid that being with your best friend who is a lesbian may rub off on you (a myth) or that your other friends may think you are a lesbian because you hang out with her then stand strong and don't let a good friend get away because of their sexual preference. If you are not sure they are a lesbian then continue on with the friendship and stop guessing as to whether she is a lesbian or not. Society has a bad habit of labeling people with the wrong label. Example: Your best friend hangs out with only women and you don't see her date. This does not necessarily mean she is a lesbian, but could simply be shy or is not ready to date because she hasn't found the right person.
How do you tell your best friend no when she ask you out but the thing is your not a lesbian but she is?
Talk to her alone and explain to her that being a lesbian is not your style but you still want 2 be her friend
What does it mean when girls have guy best friends?
It really means nothing contrary to some people beliefs. I have a guy best friend. I'm not a lesbian, I don't have a secret crush on him, and I'm not using him to get to his friend. I honestly just like hanging out with him and think he's funny. When a girl has a guy best friend it really means nothing.
When your best friend is a lesbian and she wants to make out with you what do you do?
You do what you want to do. If you are not interested, just tell her.
What do you do when your best friend is a lesbian and she ask you out?
You be honest... If you want to, you say yes, if not, you say no.
What does a true friend is the best possession means?
it means a friend is the best possession it means a friend is the best possession
Why is your friend's ex want you?
well my best friends boyfriend wanted me. i didn't know why but he did and then when he asked me out i said no because he was my best friend's ex and he asked why and i said "because your my best friend's ex and its not right"
If you are a lesbian and you have a best friend that acts a lot like she is a lesbian and you like her what do you do?
Well, first of all, you want to make SURE that your best friend is showing signs of a lesbian. If not, you could take a risk by confronting her and telling her how you feel. What are the risks of telling my best friend I am a lesbian? A question most people would ask, most likely. You could end up making her feel uncomfortable around you, and basically losing your friendship, if she turns out not being a lesbian. But, if your best friend was a true friend, she would understand the way you are and still be your best friend, even though she may not be a lesbian. Possibilities: She could be BI. (Someone who is interested in both genders.) Which means she could show signs of being a lesbian, but is not fully interested in that one gender (girls.) she could also be intersted in men. If I were you, I would make sure that she was a lesbian, or BI, before putting your friendship on the line. This is coming from me, my opinion only: If I were your best friend, I would feel a little upset, since I am not lesbian and all. I have a lesbian friend and she knows for a fact that I am NOT lesbian or BI. But, she still feels feelings for me. This upsets me because she should know, that knowing her for many years, I would probably feel the slightest of uneasy or feel uncomfortable, (Not that I don't love her, family wise.), and yet she still goes and confesses her feelings to me and hopes that I feel that in return. It angers me that even though she knows I am not like that, she still shows her feelings towards me, which obviously (probably in any friendship) would drive a tiny wedge between the two friends. The above is just an explanation of what a real friend in this situation feels. I hope this is not what your friend will feel when and if you confess to her.
