How do you tell your boyfriend that you don't love him anymore?

Answer 1

Honesty is the only way to go. Just don't start making a sandwich and pop your little surprise. Arrange for an evening along and then talk to her and explain how you feel and how sorry you are, but you had to be honest with her so she could be free to pursue someone else. It doesn't matter how well you put it you'll break her heart, but by staying and saying nothing it would only make things worse for her. If you have children tell her you'll pay child support and if you have a home, hopefully you'll let her stay in it with the children. Sometimes people just fall out of love. There is a warning attached to this though. 6 out of 10 men (or women) think they have fallen out of love with their mates and go ahead with their lives only to find that they miss their mate, want them back and it's just too late. The grass on the other side of the fence is seldom greener!

Answer 2

First off, tell him that you have loved the time that you 2 have spent together. Make sure he's in a comfortable enviroment. Then gently tell him that you 2 have grown apart, and you think it's best to split up.

Answer 3

• Before you decide to tell your husband you don't love him try to get away on a vacation either alone; visit relatives in another town or State or go traveling for a couple of weeks with a girlfriend. Give yourself time to think straight. If you still decide to tell him you don't love him then and if you have any children together, send the children to their grandparents over-night or a relatives and have a quiet evening together with your husband and the only way you can let him know how you feel is by being honest with him, but give him reasons why you feel this way. There is always the possibility that he may not be in love with you either and has not told you.
  

Answer 4

Be careful where you tread and no "the grass is not always greener on the other side." Anyone after several years of marriage would be lying if they said they still felt that magic they did when they first met or were first married. Life happens and we have a lot on our shoulders in this modern age, so it stands to reason that we could feel like we want to run away from things, have a great romance of all times, or just be out on our own. It's possible you really don't love your husband, but I do think you owe it to him and yourself to investigate this further. Why not try taking a 3 weeks vacation somewhere? If you can't afford to go far, then stay somewhere you feel at peace and think things over a little more. If you still feel the same when you come back, then you're going to have to sit down and tell your husband you want a divorce. Speaking of "sitting down" when was the last time either of you communicated your feelings to each other? If you think husbands are going to walk up to you and discuss your marriage then you are in for a shock. Most men stay as far away from a serious discussion with the woman they love because they know they'll never win. LOL I've been married almost 34 years to a wonderful man. Our marriage isn't perfect and yes, we've argued, made up, argued some more. Sometimes I feel like packing my bags and leaving no forwarding address, but then I dust myself off and get back up. When I feel this way I think to myself, "If my husband left this house in the morning, got in an accident, died and I'd never see him again how would I feel?" I know exactly how I'd feel ... I love him! I'd be distraught and I'd probably never marry again. He's always been there for me and my friend, my lover and my partner in life. Anything worth having is never easy to attain and it always seems it's just a little out of reach. Most annoying. I wish you luck hon. I know you aren't taking this decision lightly, but try for a 3 week separation before you do anything drastic and please, talk to him and express your feelings and let him have a chance to express his. Good luck Marcy

Answer 5

you should simply tell him you grew out of it and your feelings changed, try to break it off easily by saying we need time apart or i have to do whats best for me.

Answer 6

Just come out and say it. Get it over with, so it does not get harder

Answer 7

Ignore her.

She will herself understand that you don't love her. Show her your photographs when you went on date with another girl.