Hi. Telling your spouse you want a divorce is never an easy thing to do. I suggest you sit him down and tell him in a calm manner what you want to do. If you do not feel comfortable maybe it is a good idea to set up an appt. with a marriage counselor and discuss it with a professional. Good Luck. Be honest, straight forward, polite, and empathetic - try and keep it simple.
Just tell him what (or who) it is that your hurting. And why are you hurting this person? Just what is wrong with you anyway? Do you get off on hurting someone? Sicko.
The worst thing that a husband can say to hurt his wife feelings is to tell her that even a Dog is better than her.
She is afraid her husband doesn't approve or won't let her. So she waits until its too late to object. You're welcome, probably troubled husband, bro!
ANSWER:I don't know the situation of your marriage with your husband, but only one thing I can tell you. If he got hurt by you before then he is afraid that it might happen again. But if not, then maybe someone hurt him before the two of you got married and he doesn't want it to happen again. Overall all you can do is support and comfort your husband so he will not loose his delf esteem. I could tell that he really loves you and don't want to loose you..
It means she's hurt and is afraid to get hurt again. She's also waiting for you to ask her yourself and tell her that everything will be okay.
explain you have a friend with the "hurt" you have and tell him you don't know how to help her with her problem, see what his response his? go from there.
Don't be afraid because there is only one way that your going to find out if he loves you too. Ask him.
neither. it means that they are afraid to tell you in person. they do respect you and care, but they are afraid to see how they hurt you.
Tell him to get more active
ANSWER:Does your husband gave you things to worry about? If he did, then it's normal that you have this trust issue. Maybe you can make time and tell him that you really want to talk, and it's not just a conversation about things but it's all about your true feelings. Don't be afraid to tell him, that's the only way he will know what's going on with you..
That's easy. Sit her down and just talk. Don't be afraid to listen to her problems about you and do be afraid to tell her about your problems. Just tell her to let loose and just talk....
If you have proof they have cheated then confront your husband (he is mainly to blame because he is an adult and knows better) and tell him that he and your sister in law have a week to tell her husband or you will and if he does not break up the relationship with her then you are filing for divorce. You husband and sister in law have created a situation that has hurt you, her husband, any children they may have, but also hurt the rest family as a whole and cause two brothers to end a possibly good relationship.
I gues the most difficult word in the world to say is "sorry". Of course I don't know exactly what you did to hurt him, but I really think you should not only tell him you're sorry, but also tell him the whole story, ask your husband if he can forgive you and talk a lot together.