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Sounds like you think they might not be keen to the idea. You are 20, of age, hopefully with a job and taking care of all your affairs. You hopefully have a plan in mind for your future, too. I think it would be best for you to either get together with both sets of parents, like a dinner party or restaurant, and both you and your future spouse announce together, the engagement. If you are the girl, then in the old fashioned way, your boyfriend, can ask your parents blessing for your hand in marriage and if you are the boy, with the girl, you profess your love for her and impending engagement. There may be questions of "how will you"??? so be ready with solid answers that will make them feel better and included in your future plans.

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You are a minor at 16 so marriage would be out of the question, but, you could be engaged legally as there is no law preventing that. The shock method to parents seldom works and if you both love each other and are mature for your years then a good suggestion is to have your fiance take your ring back from you; go see your parents and ask if he can become engaged to you, but that you both want to graduate and get your education before marriage. After you turn 18 you are free to do as you wish.

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