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The shortest answer would be - Open Honest Communication!

Both people involved should be interested enough in the relationship to take this seriously. No distractions, just two people laying their cards on the table.

First, though, it would likely be necessary for you to explain that your feelings are hurt in a way which does not cause a negative reaction. If your sentances begin with 'I Feel...' Then you are on the right track!

If the person who hurt you doesn't seem to CARE, then you should probably ask yourself if the relationship is worth it.

Be an adult about it and honestly seek to obtain a very healthy and emotionally mature form of communication. That's the key.

A simple rule I have started to follow is "Always know where you stand with everyone, and make sure everyone knows where you stand with them". So you will need to make you feelings known to this person. Put your thoughts on paper and evaluate your feelings over a few days or weeks and keep writing what you feel.The danger of the other person not caring what you have to say is a terrible possibility, but again one you will have to face it , just so you know. It is not necessary to always be on good terms with everyone for the rest of your life.It is very important to surround yourself with people who truly love you and care about you. People who have hurt you and have the potential to hurt you again, will only bring you down. You need eagles flying with you.Look for eagles.

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