The range of possibilities is very wide, from superiority, scorn, and contempt to pity to envy. The character of the mistress, the attitude and behavior of the man, his treatment of both parties, and what the mistress knows or doesn't know about the wife are all factors, and there are too many variables there for a single answer to be possible.
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She will be hurt and feel that her married lover used her. But she knew that he is married so I think she didn't have the rights to be upset, after all she is not his wife originally. That is why they have the name such as mistress or girlfriend. Bot just like this woman that the man that I married love.
they would probally feel so guilty that they give up their job.
Gosh no, how can she justify the pain that she gave to her husband if she still contact him. If this is what she is doing, for God sake just get a divorce so both can move on. Just like when the husband is the one that had the affair, if he keeps contact with his mistress what do you think the wife will feel? Either way husband or wife that has the affair needs to be honest, and never contact the affair partner..
I never heard a married man talk about his wife to his mitress. I think the reason why he end up having an affair is for him not to think, talk, or even look at his wife. The only way that married man will talk about his wife to his mistress is when he want her to feel sorry for him or maybe to make sure that his mistress will think that his wife is not a good wife and then some.
He Loves IT
Yes, in that married man just feel about his mistress. I guess that feeling his mistress' simply reality
because they feel guilty about it.
ANSWER: Well, I've never been a mistress, but I could use my husband's mistress and now ex-mistress. But before I go on, just want to write one thing that really annoyed or upset the man that I married. He asked me not to call the woman he had an affair with, his ex girlfriend, mistress and even a lover, "Ditto" right? To continue, how does the mistress feel when the affair has been discovered? From my own experience, my husband said to me that she understood from the start that he doesn't want to break his family for our kid's sake, devoted right but this conversation they had was after he slept with her. To make the story short, his mistress is still part of our life, but if you ask him he will tell you that he already washed his hands when it comes to her. This woman is pissed and hurt, not betrayed, wives are the one that feel betrayed. For 3 years now his ex mistress has done everything possible, so my husband will know who he messes around with. At first he blamed me because I humiliated her, duh! if I'm not carrying his last name and if he didn't betray and used my secret to her, my life will not be this way. Anyway she send text, email, regular letters, passing through our house, will shout in front of my home, left roses in front of our front door for him, harass my 2 daughters inside the face book, gave me the voice recorded she made while they were having sex. This are some of the things that she does, and now writing me a very nice letter asking me for something. But it differ to individual, but this is mine so I guess mistress has different kinds of tantrum
Yes, some men get jealous over their mistress, but this does not always mean the married man loves the mistress, but some men feel she is their property and in only a very few cases is it truly love. Remember, this married man has a wife and he would be jealous if his wife had another man on the string. Mistresses often lose when a wife is involved and if the cheating man really cared about the affair she would not be his mistress; he would get a divorce and either live with her or marry her.
It is possible to forgive, but sometimes this is difficult in the particular circumstances. You could be guided by your mother - has she forgiven? You could look at the former mistress and try to see whether, apart from this indiscretion, she was otherwise a good person. You do not have to forgive, and perhaps you do not have to even try. Do what you feel is best for you and your family in achieving closure of this affair.
Yes, the wife can feel like a mistress when her husband is having an affair because he may well either love his wife; love both women or, he wants to continue with a sexual relationship with his wife and the adventure of having a sexual relationship that is exciting with his mistress. A wife that puts up with her husband's cheating is an enabler and if she allows it to go on then she is not only stripping herself of her dignity and self worth, but she her husband will not respect her for putting up with it. 'You' are in control of this situation and sit down with your husband and tell him you are not putting up with his cheating and he either goes to marriage counseling with you; drops the mistress or you are divorcing him. This should get his attention!
It varies from person to person, but cheating wives may feel hurt and pain during or after the affair itself, as well as when the affair is discovered by their partner. The realization of the consequences and impact of their actions can also bring about feelings of hurt and pain.
No, a woman should not feel special if her husband said she was a lot better than his mistress because he cheated on her and he will continue to cheat.