How is it that a verbally abused threatened husband is always right when dealing with a 44-year-old wife with borderline personality disorder?

Answer 1

Hi Ana- Welcome to the world of BPD. I can't answer for you, but i can offer advice. When my husband and i would fight, if the police had to show up or the neighbors had to break it up, he always answered the same way. "Don't believe her, she'll tell you what you want to hear, not the truth!" thus, nobody beieved me. and it sucked. somehow you need to let your neighbors know what BPD is, and help them understand when you need help. I actually had code words that i would yell, and that's how my neighbors knew something serious was going down. So- i hope this helps, and i will pray for you.