How is relationship between boys and girls in Iran?

Answer 1

almost the same as anywhere else. It depends on the kind of person you find. Some people are very devout and religious, some people are loose and crazy, some people are in between.

Generally you try to avoid doing intimate things in public (government and all). So although you wont see people making out in public, like in america, you will see them holding hands occasionally.

There is a different way of getting married in Iran, its not exacly an arranged marriage, but its dating with the parents of both sides involved. Khastegari. It means, you or your parents find a girl, visit her home where her parents are, everyone talks, the more modern/less conservative families will generally let the two of you be alone to talk.

If you hit it off at the khastegari, you set up more dates, until it gets to a point where both FAMILIES are comfortable with each other and then the boy and girl can go out by themselves.

I know lots of people who have premarital sex though, and its become fairly common, compared to my idea of the past. So boys and girls are getting married without khastegari more often, and are having sex before marriage more often as well. But then again "more often" is a relative term, not absolute, and I am not a statistician so I wouldnt be able to tell you if 10% or 90% of girls lose their virginity to the guy the man who will be the father of their children.