on the weekends or every other day depending on your plans
you should talk to your ex and tell them that who they are dating is not appropriate to the child's life. if they disagree then maybe if that person is really bad the children should not see the ex anymore. for there own safety.
If you mean, the child's mother (ex-wife) has custody, the child's father (ex-husband) is obligated or potentially obligated for support.
Really, they should talk when it has something to do with the child. If it's more than that I would bring it up.
yes it is equal rights, a child has the right to see both parents, the child also has a right to spend time at both houses of the parents if split up and should be able to go without the other parent but with their brothers or sisters if they have any. it is not fair for the child or other parent even if the other parent has drinking problems ext. let your ex see the child, please.
No, but there are alternatives. See link below
It sounds as if your ex boyfriend not only wants to see his child more often, but wants to get back with the mother of his child because if he didn't there is nothing stopping him from staying with you and introducing you to his child.
You are free to do so but one question you should ask yourself. "will your ex be comfortable to see you around". It is better to call him to inform him of your wish.
She should pay you, but why is there no custody order in place? see Dads House below
If your ex is the custodial parent then you are required to pay child support however if you have joint custody the order could change drastically. If you have your child as much as your ex and you dont have joint custody appointed by the court then you should file for it to reduce your payments.
See an attorney to file for custody. When your ex is found, you can use the court to force custody to you. If you already have legal custody, and your ex has taken the child in knowing violation of the order, then you should be bringing the police in, for non-custodial interference, or possibly kidnapping.
Yes, until modified. They should have done it on their own, so she has told them that she is not getting anything from you, or know where you are. Have you spoke with them about getting custody? go to child support enforcement and request a modification. their services are free. see links below
Yes, as long as he's the father of the child.